[–] RealBiggly 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I was one of the plenty, until I eventually had to leave or one of us was going to get seriously hurt. Happily now back in touch with my grown-up daughter but yeah, this.
[–] grandmacaesar 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Men have just as much right to the children as women. If your marriage is truly irretrievably broken, take the children and leave, or wait till she's out of the house, then move her stuff outside and change the locks.
I fought for and won custody of my two elder children when I divorced my first wife about 25 years ago. I remarried, and had two more. I fought for and won custody of them when I divorced her about ten years ago.
Kids raised by single mothers often turn out awful. Grow a pair, endure the hardships, and raise your children properly.
[–] GassyMcGasface ago
Surrogate, it's the only way these days. Even that can be sketch.
[–] Frostgrip 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Like baked goods or dinner? I could ask her to make dinner at my place, that might be a good start. I've got her thinking about kids and marriage from a spiritual/christian perspective.
Her mother is a deranged drug addict feminist Lesbian...so she has some trauma to get over.
[–] rhy 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaZKzpVau4rN3rhk3VKVI9sJqgpyxptsT
I've been documenting my journey for the past two years.
The unconstitutional family court is the worst tragedy I can think of.