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[–] contrarianism ago 

I suggest getting past your anger. Try to see them as self-interested people. Sick, narcissistic people. Most of them probably victims themselves. Doesn't absolve them for their actions, but puts them in a human light.

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[–] bamex 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

How do you understand the scat fetish? Did you put yourself in their place?

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[–] WhyteDevil 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

This is like saying I tried to think like A mentally ill person. Unless you are mentally ill I don’t think you can replicate that thought process in a normal and mentally healthy stable human being.

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[–] NoBS 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I firmly believe that most adult pedophiles had been groomed into the insanity.

When I see children now I look for the thousand yard stare to predict future (if not present) baby fuckers. I seriously blame the parents.

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[–] PantyHamster 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

I think, like rape, it's a lot to do with power and control, the "taboo" of being a pedophile, and the adrenaline of "getting away with it" (at least for the time being) that also drives people to be pedophiles.

Although, I do remember reading that it's not very uncommon for women who were sexually abused as children to have "sexually intrusive thoughts" about kids. However, it did also say that for most of them those thoughts came very early and went away by ~18. I'm not sure if that answers any of your questions, or just gives you more questions lol.

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[–] slwsnowman40 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

It's all about power. Look at the start of the #MeToo movement, all the accused had/have one thing in common over the accuser(s) - power to make or break them.