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[–] Trasheconomy [S] 1 point 1 point (+2|-1) ago  (edited ago)

I agree but how to you communicate that in a less autistic way?

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[–] Native 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

There’s already a lot of good advice in the comments, it doesn’t seem like @ Trasheconomy is going to take any of it, my impression is that he is just as bad as the husband and is in the bubble so he can’t see how sad his life is. Why would you feel responsible for someone else’s decision? I was asked to be a man of honor to my friend I knew from the age of 6 and I turned it down because he was marrying an over weight feminist who was on bi-polar medication and I couldn’t support that marriage.

That’s not the point in any of this, OP is wasting his energy on someone who doesn’t actually value his advice, just like he doesn’t value the advice in this comment thread and only selectively replied to a couple people.

And I’m not trying to be mean @Trasheconomy what strikes me is that you are attracted to this woman and fantasized about being with her. That’s all this is. You aren’t looking for advice, you are looking for points to sage your subvonscious.

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago  (edited ago)

Shit nigger, how am I supposed to reply to everyone at the same time haha. Sorry some of us have jobs n sheeit. You’re right, there is a lot of good advice in this thread but there’s a disconnect between knowing what’s right and how to practically apply that to the situation in real life. I mean you all are full of the same shit and I know that shit is good shit but calm your tits when I don’t immediately say I calmly destroyed her with facts and logic in 4 minutes. Jesus XD

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago 

Wow, what’s wrong with being her best person in her wedding? I see what you mean about cucking her husband and come to think of it that’s kinda funny but I fail to see how this is a dig at myself.

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[–] BrapHogApologist 0 points 28 points (+28|-0) ago 

  1. Your friend has almost certainly cheated. If not, soon will.
  2. Seems like you're orbiting this girl hard, might want to assess your friendship. But whatever, I don't know the history, I'll assume good intentions and not creepy friend zone shit.
  3. If you really want to help their marriage you need to tell your friend to come home and shame her for not taking her marriage seriously. Talk really bad about sluts, and make her understand men just use them to cum, then leave. Make her realize if she goes down this path, the only thing that will be more vast than the emptiness inside her is the Costco wine section.
  4. Talk to beta husband and let him know he needs to step it up. Give him a copy of Corey Wayne's How to be a 3% Man. It's easy to digest, and really has a lot of great advice. Mostly common sense for any right leaning man, but some teachable topics with good reminders for men. It's easy in a relationship to lose focus and get comfortable. I know the book really made me realize I was slipping up as a boyfriend, and just getting lazy. Definitely gave me a kick in the ass to make my relationship as fun and exciting as it was in the very beginning when everything was new. And Corey was right, it made my relationship stronger, made my gf happier, and it was simply more fun to be in the relationship.
  5. Understand that your friend probably already cheated.

Good luck

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[–] albatrosv15 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago  (edited ago)

@OP --> 1. and 5.

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

  1. Yeah I didn’t really factor this much but from what she’s told me this all but confirmed. And if not completely physical (which I could see her avoiding mentioning to me to come off as less of a fucking whore) then absolutely emotionally to someone else.

  2. Maybe when I first met her way back in high school I had the “this is a girl who will talk to me” kinda crush but very soon after that she’s been off my romantic radar. I have had several girlfriends and a two year one I’m with now who I am very happy with.

As for the rest I really appreciate the advice and it’s something I wanna take with me but this whole deal is kinda said and gone. Also, I mentioned elsewhere in this thread it’s not really my problem to fix. Like I don’t have any plans on fucking her and the husband I could care less about I only know him because of her. It’s more like, I wanted to share a personal story that’s just- TOO real from all the shit we see elsewhere in society. But thanks for the comment I really do appreciate it.

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[–] Momo_Applebach 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Eh, it's not your fault. It's a combination of bad factors. She's a big enough idiot to go off volunteering for a year when she's just gotten married. She's a big enough idiot to use that as an excuse to cheat when she just got married. Her husband is a big enough idiot to not put his foot down about any of this.

Sure, it wasn't the best suggestion to make, but I get bad advice from my friends all the time and I fucking ignore it lmao.

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[–] CameraCode 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Also, I mentioned elsewhere in this thread it’s not really my problem to fix.

This is a terrible attitude to have. She is your friend, right? Don't you care about your friends? You don't have to save the marriage (that may already be dead), but you have an obligation to get your friend on a better path. She is going to be a divorced woman who spends her time doing volunteer service programs and "looking for adventure". She is going to die bitter and alone without a husband or children if she keeps this up. Are you upset with the state of the clown world? This is your opportunity to fix it. None of us can stand idlely by.

Maybe read some of Empress' stuff or ask her for advice as well, she has good advice for women.

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[–] BackdoorSluts8 3 points 16 points (+19|-3) ago  (edited ago)

Why would you listen to a girl bitch about her life when you're not even doing her? Don't you have better things to do with your life? Jesus bro have some respect for yourself. I barely skimmed your frivolous wall of text - no one here gives a shit about any of this shit, and you probably shouldn't either.

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[–] 17685523? 5 points 0 points (+5|-5) ago  (edited ago)

Sometimes, people have other people in their lives about whom they care. They are called friends, and they matter to some people. This guy is concerned with his friends, world and community, so fuck off with your kike porn name and your faggot ass attitude.

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[–] albatrosv15 1 point 7 points (+8|-1) ago 

So, fellow comrade, what did you do before joining voat 4.5 hours ago?

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[–] BackdoorSluts8 3 points 1 point (+4|-3) ago  (edited ago)

mostly OP's mom

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[–] Battlefat 1 point 5 points (+6|-1) ago 

It’s interesting that OP compelled you enough to stand up for what you believe and say something here after just having lurked enough to say the right thing. I’d say lurk more but you seem to have strong opinions, unless you’re an alt, then why are you so gay, otherwise welcome to VOAT you curious faggot

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[–] BackdoorSluts8 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Probably because he reminded me of the time I myself spent as an emotional tampon. Plus someone needed to call OP a colossal faggot for his "need to vent" and the time he wasted typing this shit out.

Appreciate the welcome, you guys are just one big faggy family aren't you?

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[–] Crinkus 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

Nah he's right, men should never allow women to talk to them about relationship issues

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[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 0 points 19 points (+19|-0) ago  (edited ago)

And on top of that they had only spent about three months in person with each other. Why? Because she’s off doing this year long volunteer service program which,

I stopped reading there. She's either already cheating on him or she wants to cheat on him and saying she wants a divorce will free her up to do so.

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[–] 17686672? 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I don't agree with this, i had a couple female friends with which i had a very good uninterested friendship and were important people to me

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] 3 points -2 points (+1|-3) ago 

Thank you, Jesus it’s like people in this thread are allergic to em

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[–] Native 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Fat female friends.

Men can’t be friends with attractive women who are in their prime

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[–] Soyboy69 ago 

There is no good reason for a man to be friends with a woman

To keep an eye on her and try to mold her into the perfect wife while you're waiting for her to come of age? Not saying go after a creepily young girl but no reason not to go after some teen girls you find and try to keep them on the right path while you wait for them to reach the excessively late age of consent.

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[–] antistatist 0 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago 

Tell her you were wrong to encourage her to go on the volunteer program, then tell her she can't do any better than her weeny husband, and that if she get's a divorce she will become a cool wine aunt and never have children and ultimately be eaten by cats. If she looks up to you like you say, this will hit her ego hard and put her in her place.

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[–] CodyCigar_1800 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

Women can never say that they want to dominated directly so she is saying is subtly. When she complains that some bitchy trivial demand she made to her husband wasn't met, she is really her saying that she can complain about anything and her pussy husband won't take charge and tell her to shut her mouth. With the mind virus feminism attacking the sensibilities of Western women's brains men need to more assertive than ever with their women

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Yeah so I just talked to her the other day and she basically said, verbatim, ‘he doesn’t stand up for himself or call me out or tell me no’. Yeeeesh

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