[–] [deleted] 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago (edited ago)
This is solid advice because it makes the good people in this situation, the men, alienate the manipulator, the woman, to the benefit of all based on the facts at hand @Trasheconomy
[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Haha “take buddy holly with you” made me chuckle. But what’s wrong with pen pals? It’s funny how all of you that have replied said she’s cheating though. I think so too. Like, absolutely emotionally I can say like %95 percent certain sleeping around too.
[–] stillhavemyforeskin 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago (edited ago)
I feel like getting married and not having children IMMEDIATELY is a mistake. I understand the financial burden and people wanting to be as prepared as possible, but all of the happiest married people I know in my life didn't plan their lives like this. In fact, a lot of them had children before they got married. Children are the glue that holds the relationship together. Quite frankly, I don't understand the point of being married if children aren't involved.
On top of that, it's flawed logic to think: "I'll get a divorce, date around and try "some" new guys, and eventually settle down for good with one of them." Why not settle down with the guy you're currently with? I imagine it's because she simply wants to relive the honey moon phase (that initial dopamine rush of love) over and over again. This is all thanks to our clown world feminism movement and the brain washing of our women. Men are willing to devote their lives to a single woman, but women on the other hand have been taught to break this oath, break this sacred bond, and go do what... sleep around? How empowering.
Anyway, tell her to make babies and stop being a slut. Tell her husband that if he actually loves her and this whole thing isn't some charade than he better man the fuck up and not throw this away.
Also, you sure you're not in love with her?
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[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago
Wow, what’s wrong with being her best person in her wedding? I see what you mean about cucking her husband and come to think of it that’s kinda funny but I fail to see how this is a dig at myself.
[–] Native 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago
There’s already a lot of good advice in the comments, it doesn’t seem like @ Trasheconomy is going to take any of it, my impression is that he is just as bad as the husband and is in the bubble so he can’t see how sad his life is. Why would you feel responsible for someone else’s decision? I was asked to be a man of honor to my friend I knew from the age of 6 and I turned it down because he was marrying an over weight feminist who was on bi-polar medication and I couldn’t support that marriage.
That’s not the point in any of this, OP is wasting his energy on someone who doesn’t actually value his advice, just like he doesn’t value the advice in this comment thread and only selectively replied to a couple people.
And I’m not trying to be mean @Trasheconomy what strikes me is that you are attracted to this woman and fantasized about being with her. That’s all this is. You aren’t looking for advice, you are looking for points to sage your subvonscious.
[–] Trasheconomy [S] 1 point 2 points 3 points (+3|-1) ago (edited ago)
Shit nigger, how am I supposed to reply to everyone at the same time haha. Sorry some of us have jobs n sheeit. You’re right, there is a lot of good advice in this thread but there’s a disconnect between knowing what’s right and how to practically apply that to the situation in real life. I mean you all are full of the same shit and I know that shit is good shit but calm your tits when I don’t immediately say I calmly destroyed her with facts and logic in 4 minutes. Jesus XD
[–] CodyCigar_1800 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
Women can never say that they want to dominated directly so she is saying is subtly. When she complains that some bitchy trivial demand she made to her husband wasn't met, she is really her saying that she can complain about anything and her pussy husband won't take charge and tell her to shut her mouth. With the mind virus feminism attacking the sensibilities of Western women's brains men need to more assertive than ever with their women
[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Yeah so I just talked to her the other day and she basically said, verbatim, ‘he doesn’t stand up for himself or call me out or tell me no’. Yeeeesh
[–] MortonLoothorKodos 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
Don't ever tell women to take the path a man has taken.
Yes you should probably guide her again. Did she vow at the wedding "til death do us part"? Because if she did you should remind her and ask her what exactly she thinks a vow is. It's meant to be a sacred promise of intent, she's not supposed to give up as soon as it suits her. If she felt like leaving things open she should have reconsidered before making the vow and claiming to dedicate herself to this guy in the first place.
She's probably fucked/fucking/wanting to fuck some other guy at this point, partially thanks to your advice. I know some would say nobody's responsible for her behavior and decisions but herself, but we all know that's not really true. A woman is merely a product of the men in her life, and that means you combined with the soyboy she married combined with whatever kind of father she has/had.
You gave her bad direction. Also you wanna fuck her and should probably just do it already.
[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago
Yeah, I'll own up, that was bad advice to her. I assumed too much. There's nothing I can fix but I do need to give her honest and better advice.
[–] shoutout_to_burritos ago (edited ago)
FFS at her for not being flexible and understanding people have different personalities and strengths and weaknesses. Maybe a book like "5 love languages" would have helped.
[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago
Right?! And she says she “needs someone who can give her back what she gives out” and I’m just like wtf?! What kind of relationship is two people giving each other the same thing?! Who gives you what you don’t have?
[–] shoutout_to_burritos ago (edited ago)
If you have a chance, do pass along this "tough love" (not necessarily mine but I mean in general) advice.