[–] TVdinnerbythepool ago (edited ago)
everything about this post is clown world including the fact that you're her penpal. she sounds like a dumb bitch why would you talk to her? I just don't get it. nothing wrong with pen pals if it makes sense at least. hahaha. btw, depression comes from having too many worries and your brain just stops functioning normally. The idea that you're worrying about someone who basically has nothing to do with you, is literally insane person behavior. Finally, hopefully you are beginning to realize that this little relationship of yours is her using you for emtional support. Don't believe me? Then when does she ever reciprocate and care about you? Oh never? That's because she has borderline personality disorder and is mentally retarded. That means there's something wrong with her brain, and it works like a gravity for people with another kind of something wrong with their brain, like you. You have a nurturing side and clearly you want love with a woman who loves you back. But think this is the best you can get. That's not true. Your flaws, and your fcked up brain is a symptom of a strength that is going unused. It's kind of like the way domesticated animals behave in negative ways like tearing up furniture even though it gets kicked in the ass. You will be a good lover for someone someday, but instead you're just abusing yourself. Because you are her emotional toilet. That's the hard truth. Take it from someone who has been in your situation and has come out of it on the other side.
[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago
I mean I have my own girlfriend to worry about, this friend of mine just kinda bums me out and I figured I’d share it with you all. I don’t think I have a sick mind my dude lol
You need to tell her that she must go home, fix her marriage and adjust her expectations.
Then you need to not be her friend anymore unless it is indirectly through a friendship with her husband. You and her shouldn't be discussing her marriage or having those kind of conversations behind his back.
None of you have conducted yourselves in a manner worthy of respect.
He let her go away to strange lands on her own and now she wants to ride strange new cock too.
Should have put a baby in her instead if he wanted to keep her.
[–] shoutout_to_burritos ago (edited ago)
FFS at her for not being flexible and understanding people have different personalities and strengths and weaknesses. Maybe a book like "5 love languages" would have helped.
[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago
Right?! And she says she “needs someone who can give her back what she gives out” and I’m just like wtf?! What kind of relationship is two people giving each other the same thing?! Who gives you what you don’t have?
[–] shoutout_to_burritos ago (edited ago)
If you have a chance, do pass along this "tough love" (not necessarily mine but I mean in general) advice.
[–] ragnnohab 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Where's her parents in all this? I can't imagine any father supporting his daughter running off for a year just after being married.
[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Divorced as fuuuuuuuck. Hates her dad. Mother is the one she went to after starting to question marriage.