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[–] Crinkus 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

Your friend is a retard and was impossible to save, don't let this weight on you

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[–] shoutout_to_burritos ago  (edited ago)

FFS at her for not being flexible and understanding people have different personalities and strengths and weaknesses. Maybe a book like "5 love languages" would have helped.

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago 

Right?! And she says she “needs someone who can give her back what she gives out” and I’m just like wtf?! What kind of relationship is two people giving each other the same thing?! Who gives you what you don’t have?

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[–] shoutout_to_burritos ago  (edited ago)

If you have a chance, do pass along this "tough love" (not necessarily mine but I mean in general) advice.

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[–] Tyrone_Biggums ago 

Sounds like she’s already cheating or got big plans too.

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[–] 17689232? 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

She says he doesn’t put any effort into stuff. I asked what does that mean? And she told me that she’s frustrated that he doesn’t make plans for her like surprise birthdays or Holliday’s like she does because she is a planner

That's because he's a man. Men don't tend to do this kind of thing unless specifically told it's important.

My friend looks up to me and I feel like I haven’t lead her down a good path

You have a responsibility as a friend now to do the right thing which is to not support her behavior. She needs to be told in no uncertain terms that she needs to pack her bags and go home and make a go of her marriage. She's acting like a child and you can't stand by and watch and support that. If it were me and she continued down this path, I'd end the friendship.

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[–] ragnnohab 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Where's her parents in all this? I can't imagine any father supporting his daughter running off for a year just after being married.

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Divorced as fuuuuuuuck. Hates her dad. Mother is the one she went to after starting to question marriage.

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[–] to_go_to_bed_forever ago 

He let her go away to strange lands on her own and now she wants to ride strange new cock too.

Should have put a baby in her instead if he wanted to keep her.

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[–] Crux ago 

You need to tell her that she must go home, fix her marriage and adjust her expectations.

Then you need to not be her friend anymore unless it is indirectly through a friendship with her husband. You and her shouldn't be discussing her marriage or having those kind of conversations behind his back.

None of you have conducted yourselves in a manner worthy of respect.

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[–] 17710694? 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Sounds like her husband is a bitch. No amount of coaching you give the girl will convince her otherwise. Either he grows some balls or he's fucked.

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