[–] BrapHogApologist 0 points 28 points 28 points (+28|-0) ago
Good luck
[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Yeah I didn’t really factor this much but from what she’s told me this all but confirmed. And if not completely physical (which I could see her avoiding mentioning to me to come off as less of a fucking whore) then absolutely emotionally to someone else.
Maybe when I first met her way back in high school I had the “this is a girl who will talk to me” kinda crush but very soon after that she’s been off my romantic radar. I have had several girlfriends and a two year one I’m with now who I am very happy with.
As for the rest I really appreciate the advice and it’s something I wanna take with me but this whole deal is kinda said and gone. Also, I mentioned elsewhere in this thread it’s not really my problem to fix. Like I don’t have any plans on fucking her and the husband I could care less about I only know him because of her. It’s more like, I wanted to share a personal story that’s just- TOO real from all the shit we see elsewhere in society. But thanks for the comment I really do appreciate it.
[–] CameraCode 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Also, I mentioned elsewhere in this thread it’s not really my problem to fix.
This is a terrible attitude to have. She is your friend, right? Don't you care about your friends? You don't have to save the marriage (that may already be dead), but you have an obligation to get your friend on a better path. She is going to be a divorced woman who spends her time doing volunteer service programs and "looking for adventure". She is going to die bitter and alone without a husband or children if she keeps this up. Are you upset with the state of the clown world? This is your opportunity to fix it. None of us can stand idlely by.
Maybe read some of Empress' stuff or ask her for advice as well, she has good advice for women.
[–] Momo_Applebach 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Eh, it's not your fault. It's a combination of bad factors. She's a big enough idiot to go off volunteering for a year when she's just gotten married. She's a big enough idiot to use that as an excuse to cheat when she just got married. Her husband is a big enough idiot to not put his foot down about any of this.
Sure, it wasn't the best suggestion to make, but I get bad advice from my friends all the time and I fucking ignore it lmao.
[–] antistatist 0 points 10 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago
Tell her you were wrong to encourage her to go on the volunteer program, then tell her she can't do any better than her weeny husband, and that if she get's a divorce she will become a cool wine aunt and never have children and ultimately be eaten by cats. If she looks up to you like you say, this will hit her ego hard and put her in her place.
[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 0 points 19 points 19 points (+19|-0) ago (edited ago)
And on top of that they had only spent about three months in person with each other. Why? Because she’s off doing this year long volunteer service program which,
I stopped reading there. She's either already cheating on him or she wants to cheat on him and saying she wants a divorce will free her up to do so.
[–] VandalayIndustries 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
Girl seems like an emotional black hole wanting to suck the life out of people.
Or, she just needs someone to give her constant reassurance, which is the same thing. Some guys can do it without tuning out completely, most can’t.
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[–] Soyboy69 ago
To keep an eye on her and try to mold her into the perfect wife while you're waiting for her to come of age? Not saying go after a creepily young girl but no reason not to go after some teen girls you find and try to keep them on the right path while you wait for them to reach the excessively late age of consent.
[–] 17686672? 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I don't agree with this, i had a couple female friends with which i had a very good uninterested friendship and were important people to me
[–] Native 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Fat female friends.
Men can’t be friends with attractive women who are in their prime
[–] Trasheconomy [S] 3 points -2 points 1 point (+1|-3) ago
Thank you, Jesus it’s like people in this thread are allergic to em