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Giving her extra attention, doing emotional labor, her goading you into doing stuff for her or supporting her in some other way. Bascially that you should draw a boundary somewhere and you clearly haven't, which wouldn't be a problem otherwise but I'm getting the vibe you like her a bit and are orbiting her to some extent.
I've had friends where their female friends would call them at all hours and complain about shit or dumb decisions they made, and I was like why do you put up with this bullshit. Don't be there.
I dunno I’m really not feeling like messaging someone once a month or so to catch up is that big of a deal. I enjoy having emotional conversations with people, it goes to fuel my extroverted personality.
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Giving her extra attention, doing emotional labor, her goading you into doing stuff for her or supporting her in some other way. Bascially that you should draw a boundary somewhere and you clearly haven't, which wouldn't be a problem otherwise but I'm getting the vibe you like her a bit and are orbiting her to some extent.
I've had friends where their female friends would call them at all hours and complain about shit or dumb decisions they made, and I was like why do you put up with this bullshit. Don't be there.
[–] Trasheconomy [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I dunno I’m really not feeling like messaging someone once a month or so to catch up is that big of a deal. I enjoy having emotional conversations with people, it goes to fuel my extroverted personality.