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[–] 17776812? ago 

become a sperm donor

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[–] 17794304? ago 

No. Become a father.

A fucking nigger can blow a wad but it takes a man to raise children properly.

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[–] 17776840? ago 

Reminder that they will do anything to destroy Aspirin, since it's a low cost wonder drug.

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[–] 17866960? ago 

Keto-cultist are brain dead.

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[–] 17684731? ago 

new /sig/

shills post fake info and black pill shit

Everytime

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[–] 17684732? ago 

contribute by calling out false info

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[–] 17636215? ago 

13016927

Nice fucking ID Holy Shit.

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[–] 17636218? ago 

hao nu arru?

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[–] 17739337? ago 

Modern psychology claims that you should share every little feeling you have with your girlfriend or wife. What is the redpilled amount of communication that a man should have with his woman, and what is too much?

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[–] 17776729? ago 

How much would you share with your daughter? Barely anything. Only the most justified or vague things; my parent died so I'm down honey, I'm just a bit stressed sweetie I need to be alone for a while.

But you wouldn't tell your daughter every little thing that bothered you, nor would you whine about injsutices or your problems. And you'd never, ever, cry in front of your daughter.

You're her new dad now and you have to play the part.

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[–] 17739339? ago 

lads…i'm the anon from a thread or two ago that announced that my girlfriend was pregnant. we went in for the ultrasound Thursday. now, if measured by cycles, that would have been around 11 weeks, but I reckoned that 8 or 9 weeks had passed since actual conception. anyway, they did the ultrasounds, and saw what they ascertained as a 10 week gestational sack, and a 6 week embryo. they couldn't detect a heartbeat. we have to go back in Monday for more ultrasounds.

sorry for the blogpost, but I can't explain how I feel about all of this, and I don't know.

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[–] 17776720? ago 

I've been there before anon, it was heartbreaking because it was around my birthday/Christmas and my wife and I were around lots of family. It was hard at the time.

We now have a daughter and another child on the way, so DON'T LOSE HOPE! Many women have miscarriages their first time.

Be there for each other and you'll make it through– but YOU have to be the rock. Women are not emotionally capable of it. The other anon has excellent advice so I won't repeat it all. Regardless of the outcome, you will grow closer. Pray to Jesus. I will be praying for your family too.

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[–] 17789556? ago 

>>13061367

I'm really sorry to hear that this has happened to you and your wife. I haven't been through it so I can't offer any concrete advice beyond what I would I hope I would do in this situation.

In most countries there are services for miscarried and still born children to be buried in graves with other lost babies. It might still feel impersonal but I think I would feel a lot better knowing that my child's final resting place was outside in nature.

I can only really say that inwardly I am very angry at the situation, while outwardly trying to remain something positively stoic

Remember that it's ok to grieve. Spend time with your wife, comfort her and let her support you. Women are often more resilient than we give them credit for. I would say that's it's important for both of you to attend the final appointment. I learnt while my wife was pregnant for the first time that a lot of what is done to pregnant women is degrading and humiliating. Be with her and make sure that she's treated with respect and allowed some dignity.

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[–] 17789513? ago 

Never consider such an event a blog post. This is /sig/ and thus we are brothers come what may.

You are the patriarch of your family unit, the first thing to do is remain stoic. Your lover will need your support and strength to maintain her composure. The second thing is do not panic. Nature, much like our lives themselves, can sometimes have darker moments. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst is the best advice that can be offered if the tidings are as ill as they could potentially be. If it was an error with the machine and the follow up is good news, then celebrate. If not then you nor your partner are at fault, it was merely an unfortuanate roll of the dice and thus you must roll again when the time is right.

The most important thing you can do at this juncture is be the man you need to be for your wife. Take both your minds off of it tomorrow, mayhaps take a small trip somewhere, just the two of you, maybe even go out for a pleasant dinner. Remind her this is a unison between the two of you and allow her to vent her feelings to you, no matter what they are. Do not however allow your feelings to overwhelm your good senses and share indiscriminantly, if she begs for your emotions on it make sure to offer only strength, no weakness for it will compound her emotional turmoil even further, you must remember you are the her guardian regarding both the physical and mental aspects of her wellbeing and thus showing fear yourself will be severely damaging. Guide her back to hope should the worst come to pass and tend her wounds as best you can and offer succor.

Hope be with you, please return and let us know for good or ill.

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[–] 17789525? ago 

>>13051911

Thanks, buds, sometimes this is still a magical place. Well, the results were only confirmed today. My child died 4-5 weeks ago, and will be unceremoniously sucked via a plastic tube into probably a garbage bag or some shit. I can only really say that inwardly I am very angry at the situation, while outwardly trying to remain something positively stoic.

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