Then don't go full cold turkey. If you are a everyday porn watch go to every other day, Then after a week go to every 3 days and so on. Pick up a hobby to feel those time gaps you would of watched porn.
Then if its hardcore porno switch to positive joi where its just a female talking to you in a positive manner. Then amp it down to just girls playing volleyball in bikinis. Then just pictures. Then imagination.
Our brain layered. We've still got that primitive brain, that emotional brain, and our last and godlike brain.
Unfortunatly, the part that is godlike, doesn't really understand what's going on in the others, which are also far more powerfull as they do controll how much energy and impulses you've got.
Our task then is to familirize ourselves with the animal within us, see ourself as a trainer of an animal of some sort and channel the raw energy of the animal towards goals that we want.
See it this way, at the moment you're riding a horse that chooses the directions for you, jumps out of the way and chases anything that's intresting for the horse.
If you can somehow get to know that horse and make it like you enough to direct it, you'd be much better off.
Masturbate to a happy family life to re-orient yourself away from faggotry.
The problem is not masturbation, that's a nuisance at best, the problem is that you separate sex from making children, both are the same. 90% of your problems will disappear if you begin by seeing the truth of the matter. Personally, I feel more energized after masturbating because in the aftermath I'm not completely disgusted and ashamed at what I was looking at.
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Because it pulls at your heart OP.
Sex is intimately intertwined with your desire to be fully and unconditionally loved and accepted perfectly.
To say no to sex often feels like to say no to the other thing as well.
The hard truth of life is that sex is empty and it's only value is in producing offspring or as an expression of earnest love towards another. Sex as pleasure is only satisfying for a short while and once you hit a certain age it will no longer be interesting, in fact it will probably become a burden.
My advice? Master your dick before it masters you, use your sexuality as a tool of love, and don't be enslaved by your desires. This is all very hard to do, but if you keep on your current path you will naturally experience a decrease in pleasure that your derive from sex and an increase of self-loathing.
Focus on building loving relationships with people around you (both men and women) and find that special someone with whom you can share your burden, have some babies while you're at it too.
Also, don't racemix, because it's adultery.