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[–] BlackSheepBrouhaha 2 points 5 points 7 points (+7|-2) ago
Sweeping generalizations and evolutionary psychology incoming. You've been warned.
No one is to blame. This is no one's fault. This is the way of things. This, like all other things, has a reason.
Men are biologically disposable. Women want conflict. They want men to kill eachother and for the strongest to take the survivors. They also want all the power of men to slay weak men themselves.
Women want to segregate themselves from 85% of all men. They'd rather be a tall man's 10th wife than a short man's true love. This is evolution. You live in a biological reality.
Women can orgasm more in one session than a man can all day. Why would evolution give women the pleasure of enjoying sex longer than a single male's ability to thrust to orgasm? Why did natural selection develop in males a long mushroom tipped penis which scoops semen out of the vagina if the point is to put semen in? Why are males stronger than females?
The answer is in every story you've ever heard. Reproductive access is the trophy reward for the Victor of the tournament. But women have their own biological drive and will find the best genetic suitor during ovulation.
We can't talk about men's rights until we understand what men are. What does it mean to lose the tournament of life? It means you're a slave to male victors and women. You can try to win, but the point of the game is that most don't win. So now what do you do with your life. Resent individual men and women for their success? That's where you'd be if you could, so don't blame them. Agitate for fairness toward men in politics? Why would they do that when you're being such obedient slaves by asking?
If you want out, then learn how to get out. Go your own way. Civilization is not the game you're looking for. There's never been a better time to be a bachelor.
[–] 16696701? [S] 1 point 7 points 8 points (+8|-1) ago
I'm not gonna sit here and say you're wrong, you're not. But what you didn't mention is this is why monogamous marriage is so important. It gives most everyone the opportunity to mate and have a family.
I don't think MGTOW or promiscuity is the answer nor do those things help civilization. What needs to happen imo is a return to a traditional patriarchy and the return of some coverture laws.
[–] Colonel_Questionmark 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I think the above commenter assumes that we are powerless to come together in order to overcome our base, animal instincts, while I believe 6,000+ years of human civilization proves otherwise.
[–] BlackSheepBrouhaha 1 point 2 points 3 points (+3|-1) ago
why monogamous marriage is so important. It gives most everyone the opportunity to mate and have a family.
I wish I could believe that. I saw 13 marriages fail in my family before I turned 18. I know what divorce does to the mind of a child. It's like being ripped in half.
I'm biased. I've got a skewed Bayesian model of probabilities. Even the marriages that stayed together are miserable.
I've got a girlfriend. She doesn't want kids. She's getting old. I'd love to have kids, but not if the mother can take them away.
MensRights hasn't done anything because nature doesn't care about individual males. My comment is the answer to the question "Why?" It makes more sense than a belief in the moral failing of society. We're transcendent animals and we've got to work with that.
Think of it as going on strike. The only winning move is not to play.
I hope you the best. I hope you have someone who trusts you and you make many babies.
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[–] 16698787? [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I conceal carry all the time. Plus, I'm very well trained.