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[–] sonuvspam ago 

No...but i've been dumped becuase I always headed straight for her ass, like, just becuase I dont grease the shit menas i dont love or respect her or something. Bitch....anyway...

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[–] Native 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Yes.

This is an important question to answer in particular for women who have a shorter fertility window then men. Honestly though, the children question should be one of the first things to be brought up in dating because if it isn't answered within the first three dates then you are wasting your time and in particular if your a whamen why would you be in a relationship that you know isn't going anywhere.

I'm guessing in your relationship, she isn't ready for kids for another few years? Working on her career?

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[–] Dellingr [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

ding ding ding, and debt

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[–] Native ago 

debt is tough though not necessarily a deal breaker.

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[–] carnold03 ago  (edited ago)

  • Are you two married, how long have you two been together?
  • Is she physically incapable of having children, or voicing that having children be postponed?
  • Did you two discuss this matter earlier in your relationship?
  • Do you share a home?

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[–] Dellingr [S] ago 

Engaged - 3 years postponed - for work and debt Yes, but circumstances regarding work and debt shifted her timeline back Apartment, but I am moving for work soon and she will have to finish up here for 8 months before she would come out and join me.

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[–] carnold03 ago 

Three years is a long time to be engaged. Reads like she's telling you that her and her career ambitions will be coming before any relationship she might have with you. If you're not ok with that now, don't expect yourself to feel any better about it later. It's good that you're figuring these things out now, before marriage, than realizing them after with kids.

The only thing I would advise is that when you make the move, make it a clean break, financially and physically. Put all the utilities into her name two months before you move, so she has minimal difficulties should any service problems arise and have stop having sex with her a month before that so you'll know she can't pull the parent trap on you. Best of luck to you.