0
0

[–] derram ago 

https://archive.ph/yyeSg :

Duncan Jones on Twitter: "I have 2 kids. 2 1/2 years & 9 months old respectively. I’ll tell you something I never see anyone admit... they are exhausting, frustrating & life-destabilizing. They are rarely fun. Sure, smiles are great, hugs are lovely, but it’s HARD & not obviously a good choice in life."


This has been an automated message.

0
0

[–] matthew-- ago 

You know what, fuck it. I agree with him. 2.5y and 9m are still babies. Mine is just about to turn 3, and is only just starting to get interesting and fun to play with. I can actually start teaching him how to do stuff, and we can play fight and I can throw him around without having to worry too much about hurting him compared to before. I couldn't do that when he was young, and it's only going to get better as he gets older.

This guy just needs to wait a few years until they stop being babies and start being fun kids. I can't wait till mine gets to the age when we can start working on cool projects together, ride motorcycles etc.

What's supposed to happen is that men like this guy will go to work to provide for his family, and see the kids when he gets home, and only to play with them for a bit, while his wife stays home to look after the babies, and is assisted by grandparents. Not easy to do it the modern age that is often dependant on a dual income household.

Looking after babies is a maternal thing to do. It's exhausting for men because men need good sleep to maintain high testosterone (which is needed to be a good provider), frustrating because you can't reason with babies and looking after them all the time leaves your partner tired and deprived of any sex drive. And the arguments that ensue can break a marriage.

But after that stage is over, I only see it getting better. Organise help for your wife, get some side pussy to keep you satiated, and wait it out. I'm sure it's worth it.

0
0

[–] Rodjers04 ago 

The guy sounds like a dead-beat dad in the making.