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[–] Socks_are_okay 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Always got told I was nauseating and the worst child a mother could be cursed with. My younger siblings played with dolls while I had a rabbit and pencils. People would always comment I'd be fucked unless I were to have my sisters help out, or change into a "normal person".

Now my siblings and I have reached adulthood. They are spoiled, have drinking problems, and their house is a pigsty. I'm the only one who managed to come out more than just ok.

Including older children helps, but teaching them common sense gets them just as far, if not further.

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[–] callthehambulance 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I'm so sorry you went through that. I had a similar thing. My Dad left and my Mum blamed me because she weaned me late (I have no clue either, narc logic I guess?) and while it all made me who I am now, gosh I hated her at the time.

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[–] Socks_are_okay ago 

Sorry to hear about that. It's something nobody should have to go through. I hope you're doing better and can be proud of what you've become. Wishing you a great day