[–] DakotaJane ago
if I really wanted to be, I coild be married. We’ve talked about it. I don’t hear my biological clock ticking and think when the time comes we will adopt anyway.
Again, your life isn’t my life. I’m not sure why you are so concerned about locking down a good man. I live in a sea of them.
[–] DakotaJane 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
Too funny. Zero worry. Act smug if you want, but you don’t know me and you come across as someone who wants misery for others. Not a good look.
[–] Palindromedan 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
This is the absolute truth. Dated a man for 6+ years who dragged his feet and took advantage of me. Came out of it, did some soul searching, became a better person and met a quality man who was upfront by the 3rd month that he wanted marriage and kids. That’s what we happily have now.
[–] 14736346? [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
It happens. Most of us didn't have the benefit of older women in society telling us the truth. Good for you for figuring it out on your own- most don't.
Also, thank you for sharing your experience.
[–] Palindromedan 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Thanks, I had a difficult family situation (terminal illness in one parent) that created a lot of dysfunction and lack of parenting so I had a tough time. On the other side now and I’m so very happy and fulfilled.