[–] stbelmont 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago (edited ago)
You can enjoy your sexuality and easily find males who appreciate that, but if you stay on your level you're going end up with guys on your level. You're going for quantity over quality. Don't give that type what they want and they'll move on to one (or more) who does. It's not you they want, and respect and value, but that you perform sex acts for their benefit.
Your odds of getting a good husband drop.
You say you're living your life responsibly, but I think you realize we're not buying that. Who really believes you?
[–] DakotaJane 2 points -2 points 0 points (+0|-2) ago
“We”. Who is we?
I have a man and I’m doing just fine. He’s going to pop the question at some point, but neither of us are in a particular hurry.
If what you did works for you, good for you. Instead I saw the world, learned a trade, and experienced life and I’m actually prepared to settle down when it happens with not a single regret.
[–] stbelmont 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I see you've gone from "I want a man who will appreciate that" to "I have a man". One who you acknowledge is in no hurry to marry you.
"We" being the TraditionalWives forum, but if I have misestimated them, I welcome all who believe you that you're living your life responsibly to say so.
[–] 14716501? [S] 0 points 9 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago (edited ago)
This statement tells me that you were raised my a single mom bc no dad living in the home would ever allow it. Am guessing your mom put you on the pill when you were 15 and that you've been on it ever since.
What your mom failed to tell you was that while you are spending or spent your 20s riding the cock carousel, eligible men were snatching up the good girls...but first they used girls like you for practice. You my dear are a practice girl and I'm willing to bet you'll find yourself a beta provider as soon as your looks start to fade and when you can't compete w/ the younger women any longer.
So go ahead and keep telling yourself how liberated you are but you may want to go ahead and invest in cat food stock now.
TLDR: just an observation of my own
[–] DakotaJane 4 points -3 points 1 point (+1|-4) ago (edited ago)
Wow, so any woman who wore a revealing prom dress has to be from a broken home, etc.
If a woman decides to be her own person and not go to her wedding a virgin, take her husbands name and cook, clean and have children until they die, they are somehow damaged?
Sorry - but if you really see your life as that black and white, you are the one that's broken.
A person can have more than one sex partner without being a slut. A person can decide not to get married early without being damaged. We're probably all going to live until we're close to 100. Why rush to make the big decisions when we're still too young to make informed ones? It's like you're signing up for misery.
If you really are so closed minded that you don't understand we can be both adults and women, I really feel pity for you.
[–] 14719633? [S] 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
Yeah, I'm guessing you've had a lot more than couple partners.
The reason I'm so vocal when I come across women like yourself is because nobody is telling you the truth. What ends up happening much of the time is that you'll not be able to find a husband when you're finally ready to settle down- maybe your looks will have deteriorated to such an extent that you can't attract one, or maybe you can't find one that wants to invest his life into someone who has slept around a lot...who knows. If you don't find a husband you'll inevitably turn into a hyper feminist because there you'll at least find community (even if it's a sorry substitute for a family) or you'll decide to become a lesbian and raise a child with your partner. Either way it's a problem for society.