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[–] xX720-noscopeXx 1 point 12 points 13 points (+13|-1) ago
obviously they don't exercise enough and eat shit food.
Maybe its because they feel more comfortable with one another as there all chicks and not picky guys.
butch lesbians do tend to be stocky though.
[–] thatsmrdickface 0 points 14 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago
obviously they don't exercise enough and eat shit food.
Somebody write this guy a check for $3.5 million.
[–] xX720-noscopeXx 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I thought gays would be more fit seeing as they like muscle men and aren't all chubby chasers?
its stupid that people wonder why there fat and the reason is always x amount energy in x amount energy out
[–] [deleted] 1 point 27 points 28 points (+28|-1) ago
In any thread about weightloss this low effort comment is reliably the most upvoted. Everyone thinks it's clever because it is technically correct, but it is completely useless, and adds nothing to the discussion. It shuts down any useful conversation about hunger management and motivation, or in this case the sociological reasons why a group happens to be less willing or less able to control their caloric balance.
[–] toatsmavoats 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
Hands out of the cage. No one feed the troll.
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[–] toatsmavoats 1 point 2 points 3 points (+3|-1) ago
BUT WHERE WILL WE FIND THE MONEY FOR OUR NATIONAL INFRASTRUCTURE??? WON'T SOMEONE THINK ABOUT THE ROADS!! damnit...
[–] o_V_o 7 points 38 points 45 points (+45|-7) ago (edited ago)
Well, seeing as being "born that way" hasn't actually been proven (and to be perfectly honest, doesn't even make sense), I'm willing to bet that what we're looking at here isn't that lesbians are obese, but... obese women [are more likely to] BECOME lesbians. Pretty obvious.
You can see exactly what each gender is about by looking at their respective homosexual populations. For the most part: Men are visual, women are emotional. Science knew this long ago... please try and catch up. Thanks.
Mute downvoters: speak up, that's the only way to change anything. What you're doing now is simply an attempt at moving opinions you don't like out of view. See, the catch is: if you actually had anything to base your dislike on other than "feels" you wouldn't need to rely on mute downvotes. Mute downvotes essentially mean I'm right. Think about it... if you had any real proof to support your side, you'd be tripping over each other to post it.... but all you got is downvotes. Too bad, so sad.
Sad what it takes to get people to speak up...
[–] Darmoth 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I pretty much agree. I think sexual preference is a spectrum. Most are born near the straight or gay ends of the spectrum, but others are in the middle to varying degrees.
The visual vs emotional observation is interesting and seems plausible. One of my exes dated a jock after me(I'm not fat but not built like him) and she went from a size 2 to 00. Next she dated a chick, and both of them gained like 100lbs in a year lol. Now she's with another man and has lost a lot of it.
[–] zedoktar 3 points -2 points 1 point (+1|-3) ago (edited ago)
Born that way makes perfect sense. What you are describing is a social construct. It is far far more acceptable for a girl to get with girls and guys, then for a guy to do the same. Plenty of girls want nothing to do with bi guys, a lot of gay people think they need to pick a side or stop trying to deny their nature, and they get a lot of shit. It is much harder to flit back and forth because of this, whereas women can do whomever they please generally without the same social pressure or disdain.
I wouldn't be surprised if that was true, to some extent. it seems like they flock to BDSM for similar reasons. Seeking acceptance and sex from alternative places cause they can't get it anywhere else. I am convinced a fair number of so called submassive as well as Domme obese women in BDSM got there because they figured out catering to fetishes got them more attention. That is not to say lesbianism is a fetish, mind you. Just that finding acceptance and love outside the so-called mainstream would be an attractive proposition for fatties.
[–] archdog99 1 point 1 point 2 points (+2|-1) ago
I actually used to be on the fence about "born this way" because if you look at the function of nature, males & females need to get together to procreate and spread our species. So at that time, I wasn't buying it.
Then I (and no, I don't have any sources) read around and listened to a couple of people on NPR and there's an argument to be made about genetic variations and possibly a population control safeguard where a certain percentage of the population is "discouraged" from procreating and therefore attracted to the same sex.
The point is, the arguments made sense and made me rethink my opinion. I think there is a percentage of the population that, for whatever reason, is born predisposed to preferring the same sex.
[–] King_Carcosa 1 point 0 points 1 point (+1|-1) ago
I like the old Socratic method of questioning "When did you choose to be straight then?" As a straight male I cannot fathom being gay, or making that "choice." Just seems natural to me that people that are gay were born with different preferences than me.
[–] BiscuitFever 7 points -1 points 6 points (+6|-7) ago
"Pls stop downvoating me for my unscientific opinion. Just because I don't know what I'm talking about doesn't mean I should be downvoated for acting like I do!"
[–] ForgotMyName 2 points 0 points 2 points (+2|-2) ago
You're being downvoated because you aren't actually making a point or adding to the discussion. Prove him wrong or GTFO. This isn't reddit. "Someone hurt my fee fees, better downvote" doesn't fly around here. If you can prove him wrong, please do, I'd like to see some sources either way.
[–] o_V_o 3 points 4 points 7 points (+7|-3) ago
Wow... look at all that evidence you provided and it ALL proves how wrong I am! You got me!
Sorry you disagree, but downvotes are all you got. Try again.