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[–] Le_Squish 0 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Yes, and the inverse is true.

No one wants to date in their league. Everyone thinks they deserve an 8 when they should be aiming for a 4-6. Lazy fucks think they deserve a mate with drive and passion when they themselves have none. Fatties think they deserve someone fit. Naraccist think they deserve an altruist. Lots of people generally unfit for relationships. Women just bitch about their worthlessness in more public ways.

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[–] Sosacms 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

But I should be looking for someone to compliment myself. So if I'm a piece of shit, I should be looking for not a piece of shit... Right? /s

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[–] Le_Squish 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Find someone that is also a piece of shit but is in the market to grow with you and desires a better life.

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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

You mean not all women deserve a triple six alpha male with a six pack, six figures, and over 6'? Who'd have thought! /s

On a more serious note, as women have gained a majority share in higher education, increased their representation in professional careers, and deferred childbearing, their expectations have risen. Which isnt wholely unreasonable (if anyone is better educated, wealthier, and possessing more interesting life experiences their expectations will rise). However this does introduce an issue: unlike men, women have a ticking biological clock. Deferring childbearing thus forces them to find a partner in a shorter window. In addition, women exhibit strongly hypergamous behavior as exemplified in attractiveness studies (males rate women on a normal bell curve, however women rate 80% of males as below average). This hypergamous behavior, coupled with women outnumbering men in higher education, has lead to a situation where women are competing for an ever-shrinking pool of men which isnt large enough to meet demand. To compound this problem, feminism has spread the lie of riding the cock carousel far and wide, despite the clear evidence that relationship/marital success declines exponentially for women based on an increases number of sexual partners, and only slightly for men due.

TLDR: Feminism has led women to believe that 100% of them can date 20% of men, crippled the ability of women to pair-bond due to riding the cock carousel, priced them out of the dating market, and lead to female happiness plummeting.

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[–] SOULESS 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Depends on the woman.

High quality women deserve high quality men. Low quality women deserve low quality men.

My sisters all date down. They go for cucks and males who are fucked up. Our parents didn't teach us how to find good partners. They were pretty decent but the men they are seeing keep dragging them down. At this rate redemption will be hard for them. Looks like two are starting to settle for low quality since they are approaching low quality themselves.

I'm dating a bit up, but I think the age gap is a big factor there. He's got a better job and is more financially stable. We are both well above average in apperence and fortunate enough to be able to date the higher percentile easily.

Dating app statistics are a bit skewed. People use the internet a lot differently than they do in the real world. While yes, dating is easier for girls in their 20's, they're a bit more forgiving in person than they are when they fuck around on dating apps. Girls are really willing to settle and date down as they approach their 30's. Thats when men have an easier time in the dating pool.

My guy is almost 30 and I'm 24. I can't find males around my age who want to settle down and start a family, so I had to incease the age I went for and sacrifice my standards there. It just depends on what's important to the girl.

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[–] 13860124? 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Thats when men have an easier time in the dating pool.

Lies. That is when women begin to have slightly less success. Men's experience goes unchanged.

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[–] SOULESS 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Nope. At 30 girls have their own mini end-of-peek life crisis. They realize they are competing with girls in their 20's and most girls younger than them have already settled down and started a family. As a female in a liberal area where it's heavily pushed for women to get careers instead of focus on family, I see and get stuck in conversations of women bitching about this constantly. It's actually one of the major things that redpilled me because it's horrifying. Seeing how miserable and desperate single women start to get around that age. It's made me want to have a family complete, or nearly complete, by the age of 30.

My sister is desperately trying to bully her current boyfriend into proposing and they keep breaking up and getting back together since he isn't committing to her. She hates the guy but understands she wasted too much time on him and doesn't have anymore to waste trying to find a new suitable partner. So instead she is clinging onto a poor life partner because of her age. She's turning 30 on her next birthday and would probably agree to marry to a complete stranger if he walked up and proposed to her.

Girls lose their goddamn minds around 30 and their only options are to shack up ASAP or double down and become an insane feminazi who will be childless and have an unfulfilling life.

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[–] mean_dot 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

No, they ask for what they want. Don't worry, they eventually settle.

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[–] theoldones 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

they are told that there's a lot of men, and that having lots of them is consequence-free, so relationship-wise they are taught to be materialistic and toss away many good men to the side becuase tyrone has a bigger dick, even if tyrone is going to slash their face with a bottle in 6 months