[–] ItsPizzazz 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
When I learned that most people don't actually give a shit about you, they don't even think about you. Only listen to the people that matter.
[–] Jamesx_ 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I learned when I was in the Air Force to give as few shits as possible. If something breaks, fix it or find someone who can. If someone does something stupid, laugh at them and go back to your day.
I learned that not everything is my fault or can be fixed by me. I stress about everything still since I am a lead of an IT department, but I know that I can't fix all the problems. Throw the work on someone else if you can.
[–] pm_me_firearms 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
One day, my ex told me she told everyone in our highschool that I raped her. This had gone on for two years before she told me. At the point, I had lost all of my friends, people avoided me, and I was basically exiled. So I realized fuck it, nothing I can do will fix this shit. So I started doing my own thing. 8 years later, still doing my own thing and not giving a shit.