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[–] undertheshills 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Thanks for the listening I need to let this shit out. I'm swallowing a lot of pride and use every ounce of tact and emotion i have to get her to settle out of court. This will turn into a 50 thousand dollar shit show in heart beat. I told her that our lawyers don't give a fuck about us, and want to get way more than the 2500 they get for processing what her and i agreed the divorce would look like. I still love her shes a good mom 10 great years 2 months of lies and 1 month of cheating and its gone. I hadn't cried in 15 years ive been a Balling like a baby almost every day for the last week and a half. I put a tracker on her phone between that and her coal burning blabber mouth new friend from work I figured it all out in real time. No detective needed. If we arnt able to pick up the peices after the divorce I'm going try to find an ugly bitch that has some personal accountability. The thought of getting emotionally involved with anyone else seems impossible I've been broken by all this.

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[–] BlackAdamRedLantern [S] 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

No problem dude. I realize the post kind of trivializes your situation but it's really fucked up. Its natural to grieve the loss of your relationship, just remember that you'll make it through and come out stronger for yourself and your kids. They're going to look to you for strength. Hopefully you and she can at least be amicable when you have to see each other by then for the sake of your kids. If she's a good mom like you say then they should at least maintain some stability. May things work out as smoothly as possible.

You can and I believe will pick up the pieces. You won't be just limited to ugly bitches and not just one. You can set a good example to your son(s)/daughter(s) by selecting the women of your standards. You may meet a woman that they may wish was their mother with how well she treats you and them.

Maybe there's a support group in your area that can help out or at least give you another constructive outlet to vent. You're dealing with a lot and its important for men to get emotional support too. Now is the time for best friends to be there for you if you have them. If not, such groups may have such men. Self-improvement in any way that you can can also help you to work through it. Create a list of anything that you've discovered yourself that you'd like to see be better then create an action plan to accomplish these goals for yourself. If you're in a good place, then your kids will follow your lead.

Wish you well man.