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[–] Lundynne 0 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago 

There is a lot of stuff wrong with this. Legally, this would be virtually unenforcable. I suggest you schedule an appointment with a therapist to figure out why you feel this way.

You need a therapist because you don't want your wife to be fat.

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[–] BreakTheirKnees 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago  (edited ago)

What if she gets sick?

I might be mistaken here, but wouldn't the first assumption always be that when someone gets sick they, I don't know, LOSE WEIGHT?!

Why do they assume getting sick will make you gain weight?? Why do they assume she will for a fact get fat in the first place?

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[–] SleepyCicada 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Depends. Hypothyroidism, Cushing’s disease, PCOS, long term steroids will likely cause weight gain. I’m not talking ham proportions here, but some degree of weight gain is expected. Then, of course, there’s heart and kidney stuff that’ll make you retain water and gain water weight. But the 100lb overweight generally healthy monstrosities that stuff faces with twinkies? No excuses here.

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[–] BreakTheirKnees 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Can't all of those be avoided by counting calories aka watching what you eat? My body is kinda fucked up, mainly by medications that by all mean dictate I should be enormously fat now like almost everyone else who takes them, but in reality they just change the fat distribution and make you ridiculously hungry for carbs. Unless you have a severe form of mental retardation it should be possible for you to control what you eat.

I believe almost everyone in FPH knows this, but it doesn't matter if you have insulin resistance and your organs are all shot up, the fat concentrating in your belly won't matter much if your bf% is low.

I can't tell about water weight because it never really affected me that badly, but everything else sounds like excuses.

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[–] FupaTroopas 0 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago 

Those comments are fucking awful.

Doe she get to insert an impotence clause (e.g. she gets to cash in if you can't get it up)?

Do they not understand that the BMI clause applies to both of them?

And yes, wanting to put BMI limitations in a contractual agreement with a spouse could certainly be considered a lack of trust in your partner's ability and willingness to want to meet you in this.

I don't get why people talk up "trust" so much in the context of marriage. Even if the 50% stuff is a myth, a significant percentage of marriages end in divorce - and of those, I would imagine quite a few "trusted" each other at the beginning of the marriage.

Surely if the person can be trusted to do something, then making it a contractual obligation won't change anything.

Let her find someone who loves her for who she is, not what she looks like or what she does for you.

Are we really expected to believe that these dildos only care about who people are and not what they look like in a relationship?

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[–] 12215115? 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

It is nice to see that sentiment from a woman.

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[–] texasFPH 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Notice it took about four posts before Muh Pregnancy showed up.

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[–] Carsandsarcasm 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

He already has his answer. Her reaction to this request tells you all you need to know. If she had plans to remain fit, she would not be offended because it's a non-issue. I agree, don't get married, because this is a huge red flag.

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[–] SleepyCicada 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Seems unnecessary? If you aren’t attracted to your wife anymore, why not just divorce her?

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[–] Fitizen0 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

Because the BMI clause would allow him to have a clean break and not have to pay alimony or split half his wealth.

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[–] level_101 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Always archive goats. The fucker removed the post...

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