[–] 11731419? 0 points 16 points 16 points (+16|-0) ago
Worse, it could turn out the kid was never his and the state would still be on his ass for coin.
For all the weeping about how oppressed women are, the legal system is set to put men to the rack. Treat your seed for what it is: a golden ticket to most of your resources.
[–] OhBlindOne 0 points 18 points 18 points (+18|-0) ago (edited ago)
That's right gents, you have to be the smarter one. Wanting to avoid the responsibility of your actions is a liberal/woman thing. You gotta be better. Don't let her be responsible for birth control.
[–] [deleted] 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
If only there was a procedure that was less than $1,000 and only takes 3 days to recover from that men could get....We could call it a dickectomy...
Look, if she cheats and its not your's i will support ya all day in your right to walk the fuck away...If its your kid its your fucking kid. Unless we are just getting rid of the forced child support thing. Which also is fine by me.
[–] Biscuitbaiter 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Spermicidal condoms exist even if a pill isn't a current option. On average they take less time than swallowing pills regularly and go a long way in preventing pregnancy and various STDs. Not saying that condoms are the end all be all but it goes a long way when compared to paying off child support on an unintended pregnancy. I personally didn't prefer using condoms past high school but they got the job done while I wasn't ready to settle down. I'm no expert though since I have children but at least I intended to have mine with the person I chose.
[–] cheekyrainbow 2 points 20 points 22 points (+22|-2) ago
You could just not run around sticking your dick in anything that will spread their legs.
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[–] prairie 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago (edited ago)
By not condemning the woman and blaming the man, you just encourage women to lie about birth control and be irresponsible. A woman should be ruined if she tries to play games with pregnancy, rather than having society fall all over itself to coddle her and make someone else pay. Then she'll be a lot more responsible.
[–] Inherentlysubjective 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
Despite some dogma to the contrary, pulling out is pretty darned effective (comparable to "normal use" of condoms). For MOST men precum contains no living sperm at all.
If you aren't even going to safeguard yourself with a condom, the least you can do is cum on her face.
[–] cheekyrainbow 1 point 2 points 3 points (+3|-1) ago
I don't know why you're getting down voted, men should absolutely be responsible and wear a condom if they're going to whore about with random slags/aren't married to the person they're shagging. (FYI: you can still contract herpes even if you wear a condom.)
[–] daskapitalist 0 points 13 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago (edited ago)
He should move to a country that doesn't extradite for child support and then mail her a "Congratulations on being a whore" card once a year.
[–] uvb76 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I think Florida has foggy extradition policies for child support.
https://www.avvo.com/legal-answers/does-florida---extradite-for-childsupport-warrant--3195194.html
[–] KikeFree 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago (edited ago)
Keep in mind they will often revoke passports to keep this from happening, so before you make the move be in good standing.
Also, most countries won't let you stay for more than 6 months as a tourist or legally work, so it's actually harder than you think. Given the alternative though, I would rather be a semi-illegal in Costa Rica going back and forth between Panama living off reef fish and coconuts, sleeping in the jungle, than a child support slave in America or Canada.
[–] Onlio 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
When the cards are stacked against you like this...you declare bankruptcy and never work again