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[–] YamaMaya 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Even though this is a clear cut case of rape...the legal definition requires one be penetrated to be legally rape. At best its legally sexual assault. Buuut since its woman on man I can garuntee an uphill battle at best, at worst she turns it around to sound like he assaulted her.

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[–] 11683127? 0 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago 

Idk how severe his autism is but if he is still dependent on his parents or has a caregiver I would tell them. At least they could get him some counselling even if he won't press charges.

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[–] KikiCat ago 

Second this. It’s hard for rape victims to go because they’ve just been violated and they might not be believed. Double for a guy reporting for a girl and double that for someone with a mental health issue. But if he’s unable to handle a situation like this he needs therapy to both handle what happened to him and also to avoid being victimized again.

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[–] WVwildflower ago 

Agreed. Maybe as his parents if that would be appropriate? But, seems like she forced herself on him and she will continue to do this is the future if not stopped. Getting the police involved is not a bad idea.

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[–] PenguinOrgy 0 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago 

No, it could traumatize him further if he doesn’t want to contact police. Just be there for him.

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[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

I would not call the police on his behalf. @penguinorgy and @fightmilk are right about that. If he has autism where he has to have a caretaker or something like that due to metal inabilities inform that person like Fight said. If he just has meme autism where he's social awkward but doesn't have any real disabilities I would not tell anyone because it's not your place to tell others what happened to him. Again, I would not call the police without him.

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[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

if he doesn't I'll still confront the fatty about it, I don't care

Stick it lardo but don't let this shit be known in public. If you give her shit over it and she starts telling everyone about it, how is that going to make your friend feel?

maybe I should call his parents,

If he's living on his own, has a real job (I mean not a 2 hour shift somewhere 3 times a week set up the government), and doesn't have someone come in to take care of him, like a special needs person who helps him take care of the house and makes sure he's taking his meds, I would definitely not involve other people in this.

You want to fix it for him, and I'd love it if you did, but I wouldn't bring other people into it if he's a functioning adult. Sounds like he's scared of what people will think if they know what happened to him, it's better for you to be a friend who is there for him than someone who is trying to deal with the pig that assaulted him. If you can get him to call the cops, great. If not it's "hey brother I still love you" and move on with him.

But just for clarification purposes, I am drinking bourbon so I may not have the best advice.

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[–] CognitiveDissident5 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I would not involve the police. They are not your friend. It could backfire because this pigbitch will make counter accusations and he will be at a disadvantage.

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[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar ago 

How bad is his autism? Does he have a caretaker or need to live with his parents?

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[–] fabulousalpaca ago 

It's not unusual for those who've been raped to be in denial about it, especially if they're males. You can try to call the non-emergency police line and ask them for advice. If your friend has severe autism or if he's dependend on his parents/caregiver, then it can be argued that he had no idea what he was doing (meaning he definitely was raped or coerced).