[–] Its_ok_to_be_white 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago (edited ago)
New Jersey accent saying y'all made chunks of wax fall out of my ears.
[–] edistojim 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
If you don't think every word this lady says is the truth you need to think about it. As the father of two females I absolutely know its the truth. Besides, every girl/female child needs a mother of high character, it will make the difference, they learn by example.
[–] theoldones 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
this chick knows her stuff.
[–] we_kill_creativity 1 point 14 points 15 points (+15|-1) ago
Yep...it's almost like western women need to proactively take steps to correct themselves as a gender instead of only improving themselves individually. Wonder why so many more men are in prison than women? Because men, as a gender, proactively take steps to deal with bad men.
On a separate note...I wish women would understand something about being a good guy trying to "work for" the rare woman who isn't a whore: that guy has typically been shit on, spit on, and generally repeatedly been treated like crap by the overwhelming majority of today's women. He has also seen his father, brother, uncle, friend of he himself be financially, psychologically, and emotionally ruined by a woman utilizing the family court system.
He has also probably been waiting soooooooo long for the kind of contact with a woman that you're holding out on that it could have had an effect on his brain.
And, finally, he has never seen a woman, or group of women, do anything about these "problem women" in our society. And you're wanting him to work for you, and possibly never get it. I'm not saying you're wrong, but....
So I don't know what the solution to this issue is, but I just wanted to let you see it from a man's perspective so that you at least have some sort of awareness of, if not respect for, the very serious thing you're potentially doing to this guy. Don't lead him on mindlessly, and don't break it off lightly with him if you choose to not continue the relationship with him. Explain, with logic, why you've made this decision. It will do so much more good for him than you could imagine. And be prepared to move quickly if you do end up choosing him.
Point is, I don't think women, even good women, take enough time to think about how much emotional and psychological abuse the good guys have been going through for the last several decades.
[–] Lag-wagon 5 points -2 points 3 points (+3|-5) ago
White knights, and "good guys"... What the hell dude. Women speak with action they will never tell a man with logic. You are a dude talking about what dudes want. Women speak another language. Don't expect them to all of a sudden start talking "men".
[–] Sosacms 0 points 13 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago
Calling basic communication "talking men" is about as retarded as calling basic education "acting white".
Men stopped dating because, generally, it's simple not an enjoyable experience any more. Every encounter is a pain in the ass, like dealing with spoiled brats. Because acting like a functional adult is acting "men".
It's is indescribable how amazingly simple and enjoyable life gets when you find a women that can do what needs doing, values self-improvement, and can communicate her needs/wants like an adult.
[–] we_kill_creativity 3 points 0 points 3 points (+3|-3) ago
Idiocy...I'm not talking about white knights. You don't have the intellectual capacity to understand what I'm talking about, clearly....I'm not even sure what to say in response to your "response". You aren't even responding to any of my intellectual arguments...you just called out a phrase...good guys...that I used that you misinterpreted to mean "white knights" When I say good guys I'm don't mean effeminate men, genius, I mean decent, morally principled men.
And, of course, because you can't understand what I'm saying, you just ignore 99% of what I outlined. I guess that means you agree with the other 99% of what I said? No, most likely it means you're too intellectually lazy to even consider what I was saying, even if you could, which you can't.