[–] flirtylace 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I'm a flex.
When I'm "on top", I like to command attention. I prefer to be focused on and I don't punish. I do use pain in handjobs and the like (ball slapping, etc) because it turns me on, but I'm generally a pretty gentle D.
When I'm acting as the s, I love being tossed around, pushed down onto the bed, etc. Spanking and some face/body slapping is another like, but mostly I like to be told what to do.
[–] zen_music 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Your privacy is the gift I want. Some might think of it as humiliation, but I don't see it that way. It's not degrading to be appreciated and enjoyed for your exposure and my knowledge of your every private place, mental or physical.
Something in the way you move...
It's like tides, once we're into it. The sensation and pleasures flow, and flow, and ebb, and flow, we become almost one being as the intensity builds and wanes. An awful lot can happen in a couple of hours.
I like using rope and posture/predicament, and toys/tools, to ramp up exposure, and to concentrate both our attention on each other.
From my side, what opportunity for vulnerability can I make for you (you'll be perfectly safe, but I will know everything)? - and I like to spank. Mostly with my bare hands or a flogger. Deep pain isn't my first thought, though I'll happily go there with you if that's what you like. I do enjoy the challenge, as a Dom, of measured use of those tools. It can be very satisfying to listen to-
When it's time to come down, there's nothing like having you drifting, lost in your sensations, on my watch. I'll stay there as long as you will, and I like to make the journey back tender, kind, loving and caring for you. There's nothing I'd rather do than appreciate your gift, when it's been given. Watching you move involuntarily into your climax for me, well, I don't expect that much of heaven. Cuddles and drinks, and innocuous company, for as long as you want...music, food, laughter, friends... it's all good. Really, it's very good. (Grin)
[–] Medea1201 ago
My Fetish is bondage rough play with myself on the sub side