[–] PenguinOrgy 0 points 12 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago
Yup, instead of fixing themselves they want to drag us down with them. But instead, they've made me hotter by default by simple virtue of not being fat.
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[–] jennyanydots817 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago (edited ago)
I am in my 50s too and same for me -- I may be average looking but you bet I stand out in any group of peers just by virtue of being very trim.
Oops, did I just imply that taking care of your body is a virtue?
[–] PenguinOrgy 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I'm pushing 40 and fit people my age are a rarity, to find one your age is like seeing a unicorn.
[–] ETres 0 points 11 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago
OP is dead-on correct! What continues to rankle me is their delusion of men not finding them attractive because of fat discrimination or men holding false, out-dated definitions of beauty. Bullshit! Obese women are simply flat-out unattractive (as are obese men). I think the main reason any of them find a man is that there are so many fucking hamettes out there these days, some men give in to pig-fuckery because they're out of options (which still doesn't excuse such behavior).
[–] OnePaunchMan 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
In high school I moved to a new school, made friends with a cute girl, crushed hard, and eventually asked her out. Apparently whale in our class had a thing for me and was pissed I'd ask this other girl out.
"Why would you ask her out, she only has one leg!" Cute girl replied: "I lost mine in an accident. You'll lose yours to diabetes."
I hadn't known when I met her, but cute girl had a prosthetic below the knee on one leg. But she still ran, swam, surfed, biked, and stayed fit. She didn't let it impact her in any way and lived to the fullest. THAT is body positivity.
[–] OnePaunchMan ago
Haha no, that was a long time ago and I eventually moved away. I should look her up though.
[–] TwistedAnon 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago (edited ago)
It's simple game theory: If every woman is ugly, then the ones that are a little less ugly are suddenly the most attractive ones. Only works if virtually everyone is in on it though, which not everyone is currently.
Thank god for shitladies.
[–] Carsandsarcasm 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
You are right. This is only the beginning, though. For now, fat, ugly women dominate the movement, but the men will catch up. I guarantee it will only take a year or two before there are equal parts mayo and femayo in the fat acceptance movement. For whatever reason, they don't seem to go for it as much at the moment. Give it time and they will be bragging about how their moobs and fupas need representation and arguing they are hot shit just as much.
[–] DuchessofShitbridge 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I've noticed it catching on to mayos pretty quickly. Especially (but not exclusively) in the gay scene.
I don't know how the hell it's even possible. But I seriously think most fat men, even into the lower obese range, don't realize they're fat. Or that their fat and the issues related to it are the underlying factors for why they're doing so poorly in so many things. I think if and when they do realize it that more would be part of it.
[–] DuchessofShitbridge 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
A lot of men even into the obese range try to kid themselves that they're ' just a big, strong guy' or 'just a regular guy, not some vain pretty boy'. It's the male equivalent of 'muh curves'.
[–] ShitArchon 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
See also:
Caleb Luna and other fat gay men who want thin partners
The promoters of "dadbods." As if being a father means you should have an irresponsible lifestyle.
Honorable mention goes to Joseph8276 et. al.: "women are shallow, they want jerks and swagfags with a sixpack instead of a real man who has a personality!"
[–] Princess_Shitlady 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago (edited ago)
I totally agree, they are trying to force the world to 1. Be attracted to them and 2. Take the light away from thin/conventional beauty. They are hypocrites, liars, selfish and worse.
I have people flirting with me on a regular basis, coming up to me to tell me how good looking I am and variations of the same. Last time I felt hideous, I needed a bath, I had little makeup on, my hair was at its worst and more but I still had a guy come to me on the bus to say " You are absolutely stunning", when I told him how icky I felt he just said "girl, you still look amazing". Fats don't get that and it's one thing they wish desperately for. I love though of all the fats out there, trowelling makeup on and more before they can even leave the house and getting no attention while I, even on my worst days, still get it all. That kills them inside and it warms my cold, dead Shitlady heart. It especially pisses the fats in my life off to learn that I only wear eyeliner and mascara most days and only need to brush my hair to be prettified to go out, looking good is minimal effort for me while for them it takes HOURS and even then they still look like shit.
They are butt hurt, majorly butt hurt and bitter. That's why they are obsessed with taking shitladies down, we are everything they are not, most likely will never be and most want to be, they HATE us. Fat former women LOVE feeling superior and when we take that away (happens by default when any Shitlady walks into the same room) it triggers WW3. I am sure other shitladies will know exactly what I mean when I say I can spot jealousy/bitchiness from a mile away, it is an instinct, jealous people will do terrible things to make themselves feel better, I love kicking a sow down, deserve no less. Act like a slovenly pig? Be treated like one.
Also, they refuse to just flat out admit that obesity is seriously fucking repulsive to look at, they are the furthest from beautiful a creature could get and that combines with all the other toxic thinking to make them despicable human beings,
[–] culofiesta 3 points -3 points 0 points (+0|-3) ago
Thanks for the newsflash, Walter Cronkite
[–] mmmmdonuts 0 points 20 points 20 points (+20|-0) ago
I put in a SHIT TONNE of work and effort to look good. How dare they think they can sit on their ass, not even brushing their hair really, and then think that they can get the kind of attention I do. Like fuck off.
[–] FickleFlame107 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
Testify!
[–] stefwithanF 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Preach sister!
[–] Sarcastatron_9000 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Entitlement. People want to feel pretty without making an effort to be pretty because they feel like they are entitled. They believe that thinness is a "privilege" and that therefore none of us who are thin have worked to become or remain that way.