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[–] nimrodthegreat 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

How are you supposed to protect yourself from crazy gold diggers? What is there to stop a bitch from marrying you, popping out 2+kids and then divorcing you too the tune of 18yrs of "child" support?

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[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

This is an excellent question, it would be a good post both here and on v/traditionalwives. Study her, study her family. Are her parents living how you want to live? Did she go to college? There could be a lot going on under the surface if she did. Did she have her fun and wants to settle down? What are her friends like? I personally don't trust women that change how they speak when a man enters the room, her voice becoming a higher tone. That's a two face.

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[–] AnmanIndustries 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

This comes up a lot and the only real answer is with communication. You must talk to your woman about everything that is even semi important to you. You must engage mentally with everything you have. At the moment there is a sign of tension, disagreement or possible breakdown in a relationship, you MUST discuss it with her in full. Her response to these things will determine if she is suitable or not.

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[–] AnmanIndustries 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

The biggest problem with marriages is that no one these days goes it biblically. That is, the only way you are allowed to get out of a marriage is if he/she cheats on you. No one treats it with this level of severity. You must be 100% sure this woman is for you, because in gods eyes if she is not and you divorce her, youve screwed up. And it is because so few people believe in god or hold him up to his words (this is all in the christian bible), that so many marriages fail.

Marriage is serious and must be treated more severely than moving to a new country, having a kid, moving into a new career, or killing a man.

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[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

You must be 100% sure this woman is for you

Yes, that is what we have to do.

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[–] AnmanIndustries 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

YOU MUST BE... 100%... NO DOUBT. ZERO DOUBT. Any doubt and you must talk to her about it. If you decide on a prenup, she is not the one. A prenup is made of 100% doubt. But dont be like, we should get one, and then she is like, no no, dont worry and just blows it off. No, nothing can be "blown off" (get your mind out of the gutter). YOU MUST COMMUNICATE.

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[–] Eleutheria 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

In my current status, I could feasibly be independent. And from working in an office, I deal with a LOT of beta male/cat lady types; I definitely don't want that life.

It's been about one year of diet and fitness improvement, but I think I've gotten my market value to the point where a decent girl wouldn't be dating below her worth with me. Especially after being on Voat for over 2 years with various accounts, I'm feeling the pull towards a family life that high school/college kicked out of me. I'm even cutting back on the vacuous drinking my friends do every weekend.

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[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

This is all great stuff, you're really increasing your sexual market value.

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[–] Eleutheria 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I wasn't in horrible shape (still played pick-up sports and stayed semi-active) but I knew I'd be compromising my standards since women tend to be hypergamous (nothing wrong with that). Now, if I flex, I see muscle move. It's pretty neat.

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[–] 9957509? 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

What a superb post.

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[–] SirDigbyChikenCaesar [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago