[–] xenoPsychologist 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
just forget them. youll never see or think about them again after high school.
[–] tiredofctr 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
I do not mind because they do not matter. The only time they matter is if I am in a fight (fights are not just physical) with them.
That is a rule I have applied for some time in my life. If someone does not directly affect your health, income, or property and they are tards, ignore them.
Secondly you are attempting to socialize at a time when hormones are raging. People are going to be retarded.
Third, do not claim autism holds you back and pick up a victim mentality. Once you do that, you will be miserable for the rest of your life. Unless you are in prison or the military, you make or break your life. You are the one in control, the moment you give up control, you are in for a bad time.
Fourth, hit the gym or do body weight exercises. Shit works, thus the reason people repeat it. Cut soda out of your life if you drink it. The chemical combination makes you excitable and erratic.
Fifth is to watch this. It is a pretty good explanation on how to organize and value the fucks you give. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GwRzjFQa_Og
[–] cyclops1771 ago
People suck. I hate all of them, out of the box. Make them prove themselves before you let them in.
If you really are looking for a connection, go do the 2-3 things you love to do the most, but do them where others do them. If that is yoga, go to an advanced yoga class. If it is Frisbee golf, go to the best frisbee golf course near you. If it is reading history, go to the local archives of the newspaper or library or museum.
Instead of randomly trying to find a friend with similar interests, go to where people with those interests are easiest to find. After all, youaren;t going to find a person who is really into baseball and hanging out at dance clubs but hates history in the microcfiche room at the local newspaper.
[–] redpilledblackguy [S] ago
Thanks. So if I want to find other anime/manga fans I should go to that section of the bookstore/library?
[–] cyclops1771 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Yep. And hang out there for a few hours, reading. People will notice, and you will notice others perusing.
Strike up a conversation if you want. "Did you like that one?" "Did you read THIS one?" etc. etc. if someone is looking at the ones you like a lot.
[–] ScalarWhaler ago (edited ago)
I wish I had ditched my highschool friends. Nobody told me how much they were holding me back from making real friends. They claimed to be intellectual Christians, but all they really were were do-nothing naysayers.