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[–] RedditisPropaganda31 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Go to club with some friends. Alone is fine if you're awesome.. Have a drink or two. Assume the girl wants to dance with you. Mimmick her hip movements (figure 8 motion or hula hoop ish motion). Slowly and calmly approach with eye contact and an I'm-the-man smile from behind. Sometimes a quick tap on the shoulder to let her know you're there.. Or facing her you can offer out 1 hand aka the hand of God, palm up, expecting her to take it (works half the time, everytime). Approaching from behind can be lower pressure in dance club. She will accept you or move away. No big deal if the latter. Keep dancing. Go to next girl a little distance away. If facing her, one leg in between hers to grind. If behind her, legs on outside. At least one hand on her hip. Go for the makeout as soon as it feels right.

Watch the clip from 'Hitch' for further dancing guide

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[–] Itsdone63 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Bunch of faggot downers in this thread. If you like the music and feel the vibe chat up a nice young thing and ask her if she wants to dance. Im a big dude and i cant dance for shit but if i got enough drinks in me and a girl that wants to move then we're out there and its a good time. Personally ive only danced with girls ive known a few hours at least so i cant speak on picking them up in venue for it. Go up, try it, if they shoot you down theyre out of your life for ever, smile and move on. If they say yes youll have some fun

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[–] Tisias 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

  1. Show up early. There will be a few girls who up early. Make first contact and not only will they dance with you, but they will be reliable dance partners all night.

  2. Go with a friend or friends. It is sometimes easier for girls to head out to the floor with you, if you have a partner for their friend too. Better yet, make plans to head to the club with a group of girls you are friends with. You can dance with them. They will encourage you. When other girls at the club see that you are a "safe" partner, they will be more likely to dance with you. Girls pay close attention to what other girls do. When you get rejected, other people see it and file it away.

  3. Don't drink. Don't get drunk. And for the love of God, don't buy drinks.

  4. Consider ear protection. Get some flesh colored foam ear plugs and keep them in your pocket. You won't get your hearing back.

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[–] Nytshaed 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

When you are getting into it, just get a nice bounce to the beat. Watch what other people do and pick the moves that you like and try to incorporate them. In most scenes, keeping the rhythm and having fun goes a long way. If you feel awkward or unhappy it will show, but if you can feel the music and enjoy yourself it will go a long way to make you look good.

Mostly just have fun. There is a sort of charm to the goofy I-don't-know-what-I'm-doing dance style anyways and the more you go the better you will get.

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[–] CobraStallone 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Ever done X? You can't not dance on X, even if you usually disdain it.

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[–] nobslob ago 

*shied away

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[–] TAThatBoomerang [S] ago 

Haha thanks. I actually looked the word up but still couldn't figure out how the proper grammar for it (not native speaker).

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[–] nobslob ago 

np, I always correct just in case. I'm learning German and find it invaluable when a native speaker helps out :)

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[–] lord_nougat 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Mostly pretty much like this.

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[–] LiberalPenguin 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

most guys just circle a woman, until there are at least 5 of them there... the dance moves seem to consist of switching between staring at the other men in the circle, and the woman, or checking their phone.

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[–] TAThatBoomerang [S] ago  (edited ago)

that's gay af

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