[–] Nytshaed 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
When you are getting into it, just get a nice bounce to the beat. Watch what other people do and pick the moves that you like and try to incorporate them. In most scenes, keeping the rhythm and having fun goes a long way. If you feel awkward or unhappy it will show, but if you can feel the music and enjoy yourself it will go a long way to make you look good.
Mostly just have fun. There is a sort of charm to the goofy I-don't-know-what-I'm-doing dance style anyways and the more you go the better you will get.
[–] CobraStallone 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Ever done X? You can't not dance on X, even if you usually disdain it.
[–] LiberalPenguin 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
most guys just circle a woman, until there are at least 5 of them there... the dance moves seem to consist of switching between staring at the other men in the circle, and the woman, or checking their phone.
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[–] TAThatBoomerang [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I was waiting for this comment.
[–] DownVoatFairy 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Here is what it looks like when mastered:
[–] sakuramboo 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Depends on the club and style of music.
We would need more information on what types of clubs and music you are wanting to dance to.
[–] TAThatBoomerang [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I actually didn't know there were different types of clubs. Aren't they all just the same with the "unz unz unz" and the dance floor with the flashing lights?
[–] sakuramboo 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Not at all. You have the traditional house/trance club, some clubs can be rented out for other venues like Drum and Bass, Trap, Rave style music. Some clubs can be more like a 40's jazz club with jazz bands and contemporary big band groups. Some clubs cater more specifically to dancing, so you could find salsa music, flamenco dancing, waltz, etc.
The most commend would be house/trance, but by no means is that the only type.
[–] Tisias 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Show up early. There will be a few girls who up early. Make first contact and not only will they dance with you, but they will be reliable dance partners all night.
Go with a friend or friends. It is sometimes easier for girls to head out to the floor with you, if you have a partner for their friend too. Better yet, make plans to head to the club with a group of girls you are friends with. You can dance with them. They will encourage you. When other girls at the club see that you are a "safe" partner, they will be more likely to dance with you. Girls pay close attention to what other girls do. When you get rejected, other people see it and file it away.
Don't drink. Don't get drunk. And for the love of God, don't buy drinks.
Consider ear protection. Get some flesh colored foam ear plugs and keep them in your pocket. You won't get your hearing back.