It's like they're saying that, if they don't have a dad, it means they can be exempt from growing up and from trying to be the dad-they-never-had themselves to their own kids.
They honestly don't care what the two of you do; at that age, they just want to be around you and help. That's how you build a strong bond with them that you can then use to keep them from ruining their lives as they get older.
[–] Funkypurplekitty 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
I'm sorry thats sweet but I cant get over how bad of an idea it seems to eat such a messy meal on a couch.