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[–] Carsandsarcasm 1 point 11 points (+12|-1) ago 

So the author is bitching that no one likes fat bodies. That's not new. Lot's of fats know they are undesirable and decide that it's society that has the problem. The part that bothers me is that the stories given in here are:

  1. Gets picked up as a fat joke. This happened because she thought and was attracted to a thin, fit man.

  2. Gets asked why her profile pictures show her body. This happened because she was trying to match with a thin, fit man.

  3. Discusses things with a friend who doesn't relate to the discrimunashun of fat. This is because they were thin and fit.

This part pisses me off because they love to bitch about how nobody likes fat all the while only wanting to associate with thin, fit people. She even had to specify later in the article that another friend was fat because the fat descriptor is unusual in terms of the people she wants to be around. If fat people are so desirable/worthy/normal/attractive, why don't you like any of them?

It's just muh standards, I guess. You're allowed to have preferences too, right, even though they totally coincidentally are for thin people like everyone else? The whole fat acceptance movement is so blatantly selfish. Every one of them is pushing the idea that they themselves should be attractive for being fat, but also that it's okay that other fat people are unattractive. None of them are willing to consider that it might be them that is unattractive because how could that be? They are a beetusful, reeeel womyn? The narcissism, and somewhat paradoxically, the lack of self awareness is just unreal.

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[–] SloptimusPrime 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

This sums up their hippocrasy perfectly. I've gotten a lot of shit from she-hogs about how I need to be "body positive" when the only reason they bothered to talk to me is that I have a 6 pack. If they actually meant what they said they wouldn't waddle past other fats to try and B(eetus?)-line to more attractive people. This is a great example of this mentality, if they were seriously about fat people being attractive, and not saltier than mcdonald's fries (but you are what you eat I guess) about people who actually work towards their goals, why put fit people down yet at the same time acknowledge that when the opposite sex is fitter they are more attractive? They really must not have any sort of self awareness whatsoever.

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[–] Sylph 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

If only there were some way to just not be fat ...

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[–] ButterBeater9000 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Right! I don't think it even realizes.

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[–] PleaseDontEatMe 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

You have to love yourself first, before you can expect anyone else to love you.

Loving yourself is treating yourself well, treating your body well, treating your mind well, and treating your soul well.

As a domestic cleaner I see how fats treat their homes, and the people around them, and at times me. You couldn't pay me enough money to date a fatty. I'd rather die a lonely, homeless yobbo on the street than find companionship with a lardbeast. Fuck you fatties, I have standards :)

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[–] ShitlordLovesOreos 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

But two thirds of Americans are fat. We are hundreds of millions in the United States alone. And like any community, we are vast and multidimensional.

My god they're expanding into multiple dimensions now. They ran out of space in this one.

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[–] veganshitstain 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I had just moved 3,000 miles from my home town, eager for a fresh start away from the high school where I’d been one of few queer kids, and one of fewer fat kids.

30 seconds in and I can tell where this is going. Trying to come off as a unique special snowflake who is an unfortunate victim of society and is just looking for a few friends. Fat people just loving being the victim, don't they?

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[–] SloptimusPrime 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I highly doubt she was one of a few fat kids, they were probably the majority of people but she probably only paid attention to thin people.

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[–] ilieksnow 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

those who fall for fat people learn to hide their feelings after years of being told their desire isn’t real.

Keep telling yourself that, fatty. Nobody desires you

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[–] Celtic_Queen 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Reading that my only thought was "GOOD!!!"- fat people deserve to feel hideous and unwanted, thy are repulsive and gross, only people with some fetish or pathology would want them. Even when fats do manage to find another pig to hump, their love is nothing compared to that of a human couple, sex alone is so much better.

I was just so happy to read that, especially knowing that her experience is very common for fat girls, they deserve to be treated that way for being hogbeasts.

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