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[–] BoraxTheFungarian 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

You are to take care of you wife. If you're not doing that, she gonna be defiant. If you can't think of yourselves together as an unstoppable revel force, you need to rethink your dynamic. Did she get on the SJW train or what? My approach would be to say, "What the fuck am I doing so wrong that you won't listen to me?" If you get an answer, listen VERY carefully. Then act like you have a solution.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] ago 

Starting out I was in every conceivable way. That wasn't doing it. It is a protracted problem.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] ago 

LOL, there is enough dread to go round right now. I read a bit about that and that might have been the ticket, to actually work out and get in shape. That might be my plan to reassert myself, just be a better me. I got a ways to go.

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[–] WhiteRonin 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

@le_squish asked all the questions so it's hard to make any comment without background.

All I can think k of is you did something(s) or didn't do something(s) and she lost respect for you and felt she had to take charge. Humans and dogs have a pack mentality, if your dog is out of control or the opposite it's so scared of you and obeys -- you are doing it wrong.

I'm gonna venture out that you need marriage counseling, a good lawyer or find some very good alcohol. But before jumping the gun, have a sit down chat and lay it out how you feel when she ignores you and ask her why she feels the need to do it. If you feel an argument is gonna hapoen, tell her thanks for her time and walk out of the room. If she berates you tell her you didn't want to anger her or start a fight and that you aren't gonna participate in one. Let her cool down and try to address what just happened. If rinse and repeat keeps occuring g without progress, the first 3 options now apply.

I'm on my second marriage and have never been happier in my life. But that is because I learned what a pack leader is the hard way.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I finally got a chance to reply without her standing over me. LOL, it's not like she snoops or anything but it's a little hard to write stuff down about a person that is sitting right next to you.