[–] Wiseowl623 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
As long as they aren't bff you should be fine to go after Kate. I would however stop sleeping with Jane. That way if the conversation comes up between ladies ( which it probably will) Kate will know Jane is old news. If they are bff you may be in a sticky situation ( not a fun one).
[–] chronicdiscord 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Keep Jane riding the dick, do it on the down low and do so in such a way that it is clear to her you will accept her, but you don't want her. Keep her in her place.
Pursue Kate openly, get her in bed a few times, make it clear to Jane that you will keep her and Kate both.
Get Jane to start talking about bi-sexuality when with Kate, maybe get the two to experiment a few times because, "it doesn't count as cheating between girls."
Get Kate and Jane drinking, have Jane know ahead of time what the plan is. Get Jane to test the waters with Kate, making out and fooling around in front of you. Then have Jane remove her shirt. If Kate is cool, reciprocates, then you are on your way to a threesome. If she gets mad you have to quickly get Jane's shirt on, and calm the situation by explaining that Jane is clearly a bit too drunk. Drive Jane home, bang her, come back to Kate's and bang her.
Win-win situation.
You're not a bad person for taking pussy freely given. You're doing fine. You should have been alpha enough from the start to ask Kate out, friend or no friend, she'd let you know if she was interested.
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[–] throwaway112358 [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Not sure how to dump someone I'm not going out with, but solid advice.
[–] Le_Squish 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
You are missing a very important point.
If she hooked up with you this easy, who else is she banging and what are her motivations?
No woman of any kind of decency would make a move on her friend's active crush. You think she's genuinely interested but I think you are toy that she will discard you when a better toy come along or string along as a back up.
Also, get tested for STDs immediately.
[–] piratse 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
You're dumb..... Why would you think "friend" = bf? Why do you feel any regret? It's sex. Who gives a shit. Be a man and ask the friend out. I don't see why any of them like you, you're a weirdo.
[–] throwaway112358 [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I know.
Context. I wasn't the only one who came to this conclusion.
Ever had bad sex with someone you don't find attractive, whilst having some feelings for someone else? It's not great.
Yeah, I might just do that.
I'd like to think I have some appealing qualities, but you're probably right.