[–] Charming_Chaos 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I have some questions. How is genderfluid different from a cross dresser? Cross dressers are people who sometimes enjoy dressing up as the opposite gender. Sexuality is rarely involved. Is genderfluid just the updated term for this?
My second question is about sexuality. When you flip over to your female gender, does your sexuality change? You mentioned speaking in a higher voice, and listening to music you identify as more girly. Does your sexuality change as well?
Third question - do you ever have sex with your wife as a female?
[–] Kabuthunk [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Genderfluid could well be an updated term. I think perhaps it's more of an outdated term, as modern study into gender (ie: the development of gender therapy) has just cleared up a lot of the ambiguity around the issue. This is just my opinion however. I do know however that my interest change dramatically, as does my mannerisms. In girl mode for example, I'll far prefer to sit with my legs crossed. The natural position that the legs want to rest in is more or less where I started figuring out how to 'tell' where my gender is. And now I'm a lot better at it.
Very little, if at all. Guys faces and voices turn me off no matter where my gender's sitting. That infograph I made in the body text describes it as best I can.
Of course, why wouldn't I ;)
[–] Kabuthunk [S] 1 point 3 points 4 points (+4|-1) ago (edited ago)
I've described if as best I can here.
Otherwise in short, I 'think' it back and forth by actively thinking of feminine or masculine things that specifically interest me, or run through whatever song in my head. Say... something by Britney Spears or something by Behemoth.
Generally, my interests and mannerisms change. Outwardly, nothing else would be noticeable.
edit: my voice tends to go up too, I've noticed. I can usually keep a hold of that though, maybe not so much if I'm singing along to a song.
[–] normal_dude 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Do you spend more time feeling like a guy or girl? How did your friends and family react when you came out?
[–] Kabuthunk [S] 1 point 2 points 3 points (+3|-1) ago
I've spent my entire life holding it bottled up, and find myself laid-off at the moment, so I've been indulging in feminine lately.
My family was all supportive right off the hop. Everyone has been, really, so I got off lucky on that front. There was a lot of silence between my wife and I for a while, a lot of tears, a lot of talking, and finally a lot of fun :)
[–] beachedlife 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Yea, I don't get it either. This is one of those things that's a little too "progressive" for me I guess.
[–] Master_Foo ago
Sometimes I do this too.
When a SJW pulls the "Check your privilege" card I just self identify as a black lesbian woman and then tell the SJW to fuck off.
It's pretty convenient.
[–] polkadotgirl 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I find this interesting. What do you say to people that call gender fluidity (is that okay to say) fake?
[–] WakkaWAKKA ago (edited ago)
Jesus christ, I used to troll the forum for this webcomic when I was like 13 or so. This brings me back.
I also think you banned me back then, hahahahaha
[–] Empire_of_the_mind 2 points 0 points 2 points (+2|-2) ago
This does not make you interesting
[–] Kabuthunk [S] 1 point 3 points 4 points (+4|-1) ago
You're missing a question mark.
[–] Empire_of_the_mind 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
Nope