[–] Mongychops 0 points 13 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago (edited ago)
Eh, not really. Letting your spouse get >100 pounds overweight while you avoid tackling the issue of finding them increasingly repulsive by cheating on them, and only telling your spouse how you really feel about their weight when you get caught, is about as bad as just being a pig-fucker.
He should have spoken up far earlier, offered to help her lose weight, and left her for someone fitter if she didn't.
[–] theepilepticferret 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
That's the problem with these kinds of stories though - we only get to hear one side. IMO cheating is wrong no matter what the situation is, but maybe he had been telling her for a while to lose weight, and just got fed up. Not an excuse to cheat (he should have kicked that pig to the curb 50 pounds ago) but the original article only told the wife's POV (I saw it on here a few days ago, I recall it being heavily biased in her favour.)
[–] FuckMeRunnin 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
This happens a lot, and I think it's fucked. Like you wouldn't lose weight for the fucking person you married? I think you deserve to get cheated on if your partner puts in the time to stay fit and you don't. Have fun getting "comfortable" and watch your SO fuck other people. I just don't understand why they wait till after the fact to do it? I guess it's a pretty good fuck you, but never should get to that point.
[–] theepilepticferret ago
Can't say for sure because I'm not an obeast, but I think it's because at least for some women, once they get married, they feel that they don't have to "attract a mate" any longer and let themselves go. I know for me, I do everything I can to maintain my figure for myself and my husband. Even though I don't have to "attract a mate" anymore, I still want to stay attractive for him (and I know it gives him an ego boost whenever we're out in public and he sees other men looking at me.)