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i am exclusively attracted to teen girls and women in their early to mid 20's. after that age they might as well be men. i would prefer a very young girl over a 30 year old woman since the very young girl will eventually become attractive to me, and the older woman never will. i push for the social acceptance of larger age disparities in relationships and allowing younger people an avenue to legally consent to sex. a shit ton of people view me as evil because of this. they don't care that i haven't hurt people, they don't care that i am chaste and not seeking such a relationship until after laws have been changed, they don't care that i still advocate for consent only with the proven competent. they don't care about any of the things i have done or any of the other things i care about. simply because i question the narrative, simply because i advocate for change makes me evil.
i am used to people thinking i am evil. it is very unnerving to have such a dirty and untrue message spread about you isn't it? it gets old wondering if one of them will actually attack you out of nowhere. ideological beliefs mixed with moral authoritarianism is very dangerous shit.
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oh i get the shit downvoted on my comments like this. so far out of people who care to up vote or down vote its between 15-20% that up vote and the rest down, who knows the number of lurkers that don't bother voting one way or the other. but pretty much my posts on such topics are pretty unpopular. to be honest i didn't talk about this stuff much before pizzagate popped up. you see i support age of consent reform, but was quiet about it. than a witch hunting group came in and started talking shit about all the pedophiles as if they were the worst thing in the world. well they aren't the worst thing in the world, and a lot of people like me exist that want a peaceful constructive, positive, happy, and mutual relationship with a younger person. if people weren't demonizing people like me, than i wouldn't feel a need to speak up about it.
but shitbags running around with moral authoritarian attitudes and absolutist ethics are speaking up, and someone has to voice the other side but they have scared off most of those people with their witch burning mentality. i'm not as easily spooked as the next guy. and i refuse to be cowtowed into submission by shit talkers over the internet.
hecho got scared off, someone has to take up the good fight. i am a fan of freedom and autonomy. much like you i oppose rape, unlike you i consider grooming and dating to be the same thing described with different words. the arguments about decision making ability of teens are vacuous when pinned to age instead of IQ. the arguments about ethics of power are vacuous when not equally applied to hypergamy in general (and are completely invalidated by the tendencies of hypergamy in women). the arguments of potential future regret are special pleading around this particular subject, and are not equally applied to the millions of other circumstances that it would also apply too if that were a legitimate stance.
at the end of the day i support parents defending their children, that is their right, they have a lot invested in their kids. but to sit there and say that no parent has the right to empower their kid to make that decision is bullshit. it is forcing your parenting style on other parents. there are plenty of people that think it is abusive to allow children to become overweight, or religious, or to be raised in a "free range" manner or to be raised by "helicopter parents". people disagree over how children should be raised. it should be on parents to decide how their children should be raised, and not on some religious beliefs (humanitarianism is the new secular religion).
moral authoritarians have been forcing their values on people for far too long. if they have the right to tell people how to live, than people have the right to tell them how to live. if the tables can't be turned, than there is some bullshit going on. some people are not more equal than others, your snowflake status should not determine what i can and can't do with someone who agrees to do that with me.
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thank you for proving my point. would you say that people shouldn't ride bikes or get driving licenses until after their early 20's since they are unable to evaluate risk and have no decision making ability? or is somehow risking their life as well as the life of other people while driving down the road less dangerous than having sex?