Oh my god. That's... an ~11 year waiting period... Holy cow.
That's too bad, and rather odd that they can veto their deceased loved one's decisions. I can understand, but...
Look at you, being an optimist! (: That's definitely good. Sometimes people here underestimate the stress from medical issues/bills.
I'm sorry to hear all this. Then you come over here and are funny and stuff. I have even more respect for you! Shoot. I'm all weepy now. Feggit, Mick. You better take care of yourself.