[–] Fckmylife [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
My parents were 100% neglecting and allways let our syblings feel like shit so we tryed not to be in their way. Often beaten up when seen or heard.. I moved away from home at 14, alive not like my syster. And I dont have any examples of how a parent should be, just how not too but I dont think its enough. I think I try too much to be the oposite of neglecting, probable my son will soon feel like Im suffocating him + the drinking.. poor guy, and he is allways so kind and fun and doesnt deserve it :(
[–] Fckmylife [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
I just read what I wrote and I think it allmost seems I'm to be felt sorry for so I want to make clear that: I can live where I want, I can do pretty much what I want.. My son has no options, he has to live with me or strangers. I've told him though that if he were to be bullyed and it wasnt resolved in a month or two we would move and he has more to say about where we live then me, because its easyer for me with a car and not a school distric..
He cant use any substances like me to make him feel better, not even use his computer as much as he likes.. He doesnt even have a single sybling, to talk to and for help :( and sometimes he gets up in the mornings and his mom is drunk. And he seems ok with it, just once in a while and we are close and good friends.. but physically and even sexually abused children also seem ok with their parents?
Maybe Im a monster fckn up my kid. At least nobody has answered yet that he had ok childhood with alchoholic parent.