[–] RawrMeansFuckYou 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
In my experience, girls will usually wait for the guy to make a move, but I have experienced the odd piece of harassment.
I was out for my friend's 19th birthday, and we were waiting on a taxi outside the nightclub. This older woman, I'd say at least 45, stands beside me for a few seconds and then just come out with "Want to come home with me?" I chuckled, because that was the first time ever that someone has said something like that to me, and it was just too cheesy to me true. I didn't reply, then she kept moving closer to me, and then came out with "Do you not like me or something?" I was shocked, this woman looked older than my ma. I laughed again; but I don't think she got the point, because she was now rubbing up against me. Now I'm freaked. I'm nudging my friend and they'll all laughing at me. So I just walk away from her, and the bitch starts tearing up. Maybe she was just too drunk or something, but freaked me out a bit. If I had my beer goggles on... No... I don't think beer goggles could have made her any better/younger looking.
Another time, same friend group, we were having a drink at one of their home's, and his mum, aunty and a few family friends are there. I actually think this was the his birthday for the year before the story above, can't remember. Anyway, there's only a few of us up, because most of the guys were too drunk and fucked off to bed, so it was only me, one other friend, the mum, aunty and family friends. I'm sitting at the kitchen table, and the aunty sits on my lap and starts grinding me. I'm 19, she's about 40 with 2 kids. And she had met one of her nephews friend's that night. I was taking none of that shit, and stood up and went out to smoke a j. She then tried to steal my jacket when she was leaving, and she managed to steal the rest of my vodka. Some people.
Yes, a few instances in the past of really fat women groping me or making sexual comments about what they want to do to me. I consider those minor instances where I just felt mortified by the attention. I have defended myself against advances twice in my life, lucky its only twice I guess.
In one instance a friend's younger sister had a crush on me and I was attending her birthday party since we have a lot of mutual friends. People were drinking and she asked me a question, I leaned down to her to hear her repeat it to have her grab me by my neck and kiss me. I shoved her away and she stumbled to the ground, people started accusing me of hitting her. It was very odd having friends say you did something you didn't do and they didn't even see happen. Her sister, my friend, who invited me,came over to defend my case and told people to mind their business. That was that.
The one other time, at a bonfire party, a girl I had flirted with caught me off guard and pushed me against a wall while choking me and put her hand the front of my jeans. We were alone inside the house for a split second and this happened. She had her hand under my jaw pushing up on a wall while grabbing my dick. A friend who was coming into the house to load up more cold beers saw it and pushed her off me. She proceeded to kick him in the knee and started throwing punches. I pushed her down and my friend dialed 911 while I kept pushing her back. It was a weird experience to be violated like that.
The most I've really dealt with was a group of old women hitting on me while I was fixing my neighbors printer. It wasn't mean spirited so I played along with comments of needing tighter jeans if I'm going to start a tech support job, then made it extra awkward by reminding the main offender that I used to wash her store windows when I was 10 years old. I still look back at it as a positive memory.
[–] anonlymouse 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Yep, experienced sexual harassment, which most of it by itself is easy to shrug off, but the violent reaction from a few women when you do shrug it off is really the shitty part of it.
[–] Zednix 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I guess they react so poorly because they don't get told no to their advances very often.