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[–] anonlymouse 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Yep, experienced sexual harassment, which most of it by itself is easy to shrug off, but the violent reaction from a few women when you do shrug it off is really the shitty part of it.

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[–] Zednix 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

I guess they react so poorly because they don't get told no to their advances very often.

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[–] eqdw 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

In highschool, this one girl thought it was hilarious to consistently sexually harass me in gym class. Usually it was just making sarcastic pretend-compliments about my appearance, but occasionally she'd (for example) run up and smack my butt.

Friends thought it was hilarious, they weren't supportive. That's not surprising. What's surprising to me is that when I brought it up to the administration, they flatly denied any such thing was possible, and refused to listen to anything I said.

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[–] RawrMeansFuckYou 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

In my experience, girls will usually wait for the guy to make a move, but I have experienced the odd piece of harassment.

I was out for my friend's 19th birthday, and we were waiting on a taxi outside the nightclub. This older woman, I'd say at least 45, stands beside me for a few seconds and then just come out with "Want to come home with me?" I chuckled, because that was the first time ever that someone has said something like that to me, and it was just too cheesy to me true. I didn't reply, then she kept moving closer to me, and then came out with "Do you not like me or something?" I was shocked, this woman looked older than my ma. I laughed again; but I don't think she got the point, because she was now rubbing up against me. Now I'm freaked. I'm nudging my friend and they'll all laughing at me. So I just walk away from her, and the bitch starts tearing up. Maybe she was just too drunk or something, but freaked me out a bit. If I had my beer goggles on... No... I don't think beer goggles could have made her any better/younger looking.

Another time, same friend group, we were having a drink at one of their home's, and his mum, aunty and a few family friends are there. I actually think this was the his birthday for the year before the story above, can't remember. Anyway, there's only a few of us up, because most of the guys were too drunk and fucked off to bed, so it was only me, one other friend, the mum, aunty and family friends. I'm sitting at the kitchen table, and the aunty sits on my lap and starts grinding me. I'm 19, she's about 40 with 2 kids. And she had met one of her nephews friend's that night. I was taking none of that shit, and stood up and went out to smoke a j. She then tried to steal my jacket when she was leaving, and she managed to steal the rest of my vodka. Some people.

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[–] nurple667 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

Yep. Started as joking, yada, yada, she tried to take my penis out my pants. Wel before that happened I felt uncomfortable and tried changing the subject. It reached a point that what I had thought was joking was her trying to seduce me. I was pretty sure I could kick her ass if necessary, so while I remember it, it isnt something that haunts me. I have had other experience with over aggressive women, but I try to just walk away and it usually works

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[–] Dontbegay ago 

I have experienced quite bit of sexual harassment in the work place and in school. But frankly I kind of had it coming... I very much enjoy and encourage it. Frankly, I wish I was sexually harrased more often.

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[–] HariettTubman ago 

Every guy needs to have a buddy, the more the better, when they do things like go to parties and clubs because girls who get angry when you aren't interested in them are typically the same ones who will accuse you of rape because they don't like that fact, and if you have buddies they can be your alibi.

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[–] Devilock ago 

I've been sexually harassed once at a gay bar. I was there with my girlfriend at the time and her co-worker grabbed my ass, almost lifting me up on my chair, mainly because I was trying to get away from him.

I was tackled by a girl at a party and she tried to start kissing me, while my girlfriend was sitting right next to me.

I got sexually harassed at a bar by a girl, she sat down next to me and bit me and started rubbing my shoulder, then freaked out when I wasn't returning her...affections. That's all I can think of right now.

I was, well, basically emotionally manipulated and abused by one of my exe's, but I guess that's a different topic and story all together.

I know that the reactions of everyone around me would have been completely different if I was a woman and the offenders were men.

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[–] jameskpolk ago 

I was as a teenager. Same as you. Grabbed, stared at, comments made...

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