[–] HariettTubman ago
Every guy needs to have a buddy, the more the better, when they do things like go to parties and clubs because girls who get angry when you aren't interested in them are typically the same ones who will accuse you of rape because they don't like that fact, and if you have buddies they can be your alibi.
[–] nurple667 1 point 0 points 1 point (+1|-1) ago
Yep. Started as joking, yada, yada, she tried to take my penis out my pants. Wel before that happened I felt uncomfortable and tried changing the subject. It reached a point that what I had thought was joking was her trying to seduce me. I was pretty sure I could kick her ass if necessary, so while I remember it, it isnt something that haunts me. I have had other experience with over aggressive women, but I try to just walk away and it usually works
[–] RawrMeansFuckYou 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
In my experience, girls will usually wait for the guy to make a move, but I have experienced the odd piece of harassment.
I was out for my friend's 19th birthday, and we were waiting on a taxi outside the nightclub. This older woman, I'd say at least 45, stands beside me for a few seconds and then just come out with "Want to come home with me?" I chuckled, because that was the first time ever that someone has said something like that to me, and it was just too cheesy to me true. I didn't reply, then she kept moving closer to me, and then came out with "Do you not like me or something?" I was shocked, this woman looked older than my ma. I laughed again; but I don't think she got the point, because she was now rubbing up against me. Now I'm freaked. I'm nudging my friend and they'll all laughing at me. So I just walk away from her, and the bitch starts tearing up. Maybe she was just too drunk or something, but freaked me out a bit. If I had my beer goggles on... No... I don't think beer goggles could have made her any better/younger looking.
Another time, same friend group, we were having a drink at one of their home's, and his mum, aunty and a few family friends are there. I actually think this was the his birthday for the year before the story above, can't remember. Anyway, there's only a few of us up, because most of the guys were too drunk and fucked off to bed, so it was only me, one other friend, the mum, aunty and family friends. I'm sitting at the kitchen table, and the aunty sits on my lap and starts grinding me. I'm 19, she's about 40 with 2 kids. And she had met one of her nephews friend's that night. I was taking none of that shit, and stood up and went out to smoke a j. She then tried to steal my jacket when she was leaving, and she managed to steal the rest of my vodka. Some people.
[–] anonlymouse 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Yep, experienced sexual harassment, which most of it by itself is easy to shrug off, but the violent reaction from a few women when you do shrug it off is really the shitty part of it.
[–] Bleeding_Potato 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Years ago when I was in high school, I used to deal with two women who liked to grab my butt for no reason. I had no interest in these girls, since at the time I was dating someone who went to a neighboring school. On top of this, they also stalked me, trying to follow me home, to work, even following me when I was going on dates. Lucky for me, they never figured out where I exactly lived but would show up at my after school job and would grab at me in any location they could. After a few months of this, they then tried to solicit me for sex, yet again, I'd refuse because I was already dating someone. Reporting them never did anything. It took a year for the two of them to stop bothering me. Last time I checked, both of them had kids to random guys right out of high school and are unemployed. I still don't know why they did that.
If you include what others count as sexual harassment, I've been hit on by random married women while grocery shopping but I really don't think that counts.
[–] Bleeding_Potato 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Yeah, I was laughed at and given the response: "They like you, you should try to go out with one of them." I'd imagine if I actually did, the end result wouldn't have been pretty.
[–] Devilock ago
I've been sexually harassed once at a gay bar. I was there with my girlfriend at the time and her co-worker grabbed my ass, almost lifting me up on my chair, mainly because I was trying to get away from him.
I was tackled by a girl at a party and she tried to start kissing me, while my girlfriend was sitting right next to me.
I got sexually harassed at a bar by a girl, she sat down next to me and bit me and started rubbing my shoulder, then freaked out when I wasn't returning her...affections. That's all I can think of right now.
I was, well, basically emotionally manipulated and abused by one of my exe's, but I guess that's a different topic and story all together.
I know that the reactions of everyone around me would have been completely different if I was a woman and the offenders were men.