[–] 10thofhearts ago
I was when I was young and attractive. Not at all now that I'm old and bald and fat.
The most I've really dealt with was a group of old women hitting on me while I was fixing my neighbors printer. It wasn't mean spirited so I played along with comments of needing tighter jeans if I'm going to start a tech support job, then made it extra awkward by reminding the main offender that I used to wash her store windows when I was 10 years old. I still look back at it as a positive memory.
Yes, a few instances in the past of really fat women groping me or making sexual comments about what they want to do to me. I consider those minor instances where I just felt mortified by the attention. I have defended myself against advances twice in my life, lucky its only twice I guess.
In one instance a friend's younger sister had a crush on me and I was attending her birthday party since we have a lot of mutual friends. People were drinking and she asked me a question, I leaned down to her to hear her repeat it to have her grab me by my neck and kiss me. I shoved her away and she stumbled to the ground, people started accusing me of hitting her. It was very odd having friends say you did something you didn't do and they didn't even see happen. Her sister, my friend, who invited me,came over to defend my case and told people to mind their business. That was that.
The one other time, at a bonfire party, a girl I had flirted with caught me off guard and pushed me against a wall while choking me and put her hand the front of my jeans. We were alone inside the house for a split second and this happened. She had her hand under my jaw pushing up on a wall while grabbing my dick. A friend who was coming into the house to load up more cold beers saw it and pushed her off me. She proceeded to kick him in the knee and started throwing punches. I pushed her down and my friend dialed 911 while I kept pushing her back. It was a weird experience to be violated like that.
[–] AverageUnknown ago
Yes, I've had a couple girls get physical with me (grabbing my ass, touching my chest) and continue to do so after I told them to stop. Only happened about twice, but it has happened.