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[–] Deathstalker 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I had some fat chick out of no where pinch my nipple through my shirt when I was walking through a club. I ignored it.

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[–] eqdw 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

In highschool, this one girl thought it was hilarious to consistently sexually harass me in gym class. Usually it was just making sarcastic pretend-compliments about my appearance, but occasionally she'd (for example) run up and smack my butt.

Friends thought it was hilarious, they weren't supportive. That's not surprising. What's surprising to me is that when I brought it up to the administration, they flatly denied any such thing was possible, and refused to listen to anything I said.

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[–] bill.lee 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

I suppose I have a problem with how sexual harassment has become defined. If that's the standard as applied in the post, its not a definition I adhere to. My perception of sexual harassment is primarily the "Hey, want a promotion? Well, come in here and fuck me." I get that it can extend to unwanted sexual advances but for me, personally, none of what's being described in that post should be considered sexual harassment. By my standard, I've never been harassed but the standard as presented in the post--yeah, numerous times. Not to be overly-dismissive here, but I certainly didn't mind it.

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[–] Harkozey [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

It's a good point. I would probably include a little more than you but I doubt we're too far off. I guess this is why I put it in quotes. I'm not sure what to call it, and just using the term as it's been applied to stuff I have been reading lately. Shrug, it's ok to be dismissive, aside from the girl licking my face none of these things have ever bothered me either.

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[–] dimer 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Never experienced anything like that. Maybe because I go to clubs and mass events very rarely. Or maybe just because I'm unattractive, who knows.

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[–] wicketywahwah 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

I actually have a pet peeve with this,putting aside that yes it happens and everyone laughs about it.Women have no idea how to grope! A bunch of times i have been in a club or event the women who have gone the grope have straight up slammed their hand into my balls no gentle feel or a cheeky brush just bam ive felt me some balls even though they exploded i still felt them. Mjölnir causes less damage

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[–] Harkozey [S] 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Ha, true. How to grope a man should be in sex ed. You could slap the hell out of a pens and it will bounce back mocking you, but lightly tap the balls wrong and there will be agony.

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[–] fleas 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Oh course I have. Never any quid pro quo harassment but that's probably due to a lack of female supervisors above me. But the other stuff I just ignore; I have a simple rule if my feelz get ruffled I self examine first to determine if its just me being a cry baby or if its justified.

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[–] ClitoralCommander 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

That's a good way to look at it. The issue is: where do you draw the line?

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[–] fleas 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

My line is simple. If I wouldn't mind if someone I liked or was attracted to did it, I won't fault anyone else for it. There's no double standards for me.

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[–] RedSocks157 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Depends on how you define it. According to the femnazi definition, the chick who eyed me at the gym this morning practically raped me!

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[–] zaiguy 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

No, you have it backwards. By eyeing you up at the gym, you were line-of-sight raping her, you cishet shitlord.