As a genetically blessed person in terms of waist to hip ratio. I just find it funny to trigger them when I wear clothing that shows real curves. The fact that gravity makes your sacks of lard acccumulate at your legs does not give you a big ass with a tiny waist in comparison.
Btw I'm just so used to being a freak of nature I find regular people's stares funny too. (Once I wore low cleavage top and made an old asian lady look down at her chest in comparison when I walked past her.)
[–] Visitresss ago (edited ago)
When men say they like "curves", in my experience it means, if their girl is not blessed with a naturally hourglass figure, they will rather have a little muffin top + breasts, ass and hips, than a completely flat waist but no breasts and hips (something likely to happen if the girl is not an hourglass).
That means: men who prefer slim women want 17 to 20 BMI, and men who prefer curvy like 20 to 23 BMI (if the breasts are big enough, it can go up to 24,9).
Once you get into BMI 2, you are NOT curvy, or thick, or even plump. You're fat, dammit.
It's true and I love to call them out on it. That's not body positive right? And then i've actually had the luck to run into the ones that admit yes it hypocritical, but for them its revenge that now it seems like the tables have turned. Which is sad, but also incredibly funny as hell that they know what they're saying isn't true.
[–] SoYoungSoFat ago
Some guys are into fat women, but they are a minority. One out of 8 maybe. Even fat guys dont like fat women.
[–] Eugenics4FatPeople [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Only ones I know are desperate feeders or are too ugly for a real gf like as I mentioned above.
[–] SoYoungSoFat ago
I know of a few who are not losers they are just sexually attracted to fats. Keyword being "few". The majority who date fat girls are as you described - they just cant get anything better and settle for what they can get.
[–] SloptimusPrime ago
It's because "body positivity" isn't a real movement, it's just a way for obeasts to act as entitled as they want and then hide behind false activism when somebody swings back at them. The best description for this I've heard is being a "crybully", they use fake victim status to get what they want and point the finger at people when faced with real world consequences.