[–] Visitresss ago (edited ago)
When men say they like "curves", in my experience it means, if their girl is not blessed with a naturally hourglass figure, they will rather have a little muffin top + breasts, ass and hips, than a completely flat waist but no breasts and hips (something likely to happen if the girl is not an hourglass).
That means: men who prefer slim women want 17 to 20 BMI, and men who prefer curvy like 20 to 23 BMI (if the breasts are big enough, it can go up to 24,9).
Once you get into BMI 2, you are NOT curvy, or thick, or even plump. You're fat, dammit.
As a genetically blessed person in terms of waist to hip ratio. I just find it funny to trigger them when I wear clothing that shows real curves. The fact that gravity makes your sacks of lard acccumulate at your legs does not give you a big ass with a tiny waist in comparison.
Btw I'm just so used to being a freak of nature I find regular people's stares funny too. (Once I wore low cleavage top and made an old asian lady look down at her chest in comparison when I walked past her.)
[–] SloptimusPrime ago
It's because "body positivity" isn't a real movement, it's just a way for obeasts to act as entitled as they want and then hide behind false activism when somebody swings back at them. The best description for this I've heard is being a "crybully", they use fake victim status to get what they want and point the finger at people when faced with real world consequences.
[–] DayShaun 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I have had perpetually "dieting" smallfats poke at my body (wtf?) and call me too skinny (healthy BMI) among other things. I don't think I have once mentioned someone's weight directly to their face and I sure as hell don't go around touching random people unprompted. If I grabbed someone's roll and said "wtf you are crazy fat" they would throw such an unbelievable hissy fit and not even see the hypocrisy.
[–] hypercat 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Fatties hate me because I was blessed with real genetics. I have big boobs and a thigh gap. Eat it fatties. My D/DDs are a fucking hassle but at least I don't have a fupa.
It's quite annoying, you can see my ribs just above the boob area from some angles, yes it's not healthy, I am old, cranky, and sick.