[–] Ronan-the-Accuser 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
It isn't a choice but nor is it healthy. It is a misdirection of the breeding impulse. That's a sort of birth defect which, if widespread enough, would cause serious problems for any species. I feel like denying this only hurts the credibility of people pushing for gay rights.
[–] ObscureReference ago
I look at Marcus Bachmann and I think people can actively choose to be in a homosexual relationship or not. The 'be gay' part, that is really what you want to define that as. Of course when that phrase it used, it too often presumes homosexually is a sin, and is said by some judgmental ass.
To clarify, I believe people will have pre-existing dispositions, genetic or learned. But they also have free will. And it isn't my business what they decide on these personal matters anyway.