[–] EarlPoncho 0 points 115 points 115 points (+115|-0) ago
file a complaint and get it fired
[–] Sellyoulight 0 points 72 points 72 points (+72|-0) ago
Positively file a formal complaint with the employer and with your state or county department of health. At the very least, that was deliberately nasty and unprofessional and it was more likely bordering on malpractice. That was total bullshit, so don’t put up with it.
[–] DrShitlord 0 points 11 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago
bordering on malpractice
Actual malpractice, because wrong information: Does obesity increase the risk of miscarriage in spontaneous conception: a systematic review.
[–] retailslave 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
Yeah, there was literally no reason for her to state that "fact" unless she saw an opportunity to put down a thinner and therefore more attractive person than her. Subconsciusly fats will always attack a thin person, even if they don't mean to. But they usually do.
[–] Shitelord772 0 points 17 points 17 points (+17|-0) ago
Assume for a moment this was a fat patient who received a similar comment from a 21-BMI health care worker.
If you think they would file a complaint, then file a complaint. If you think they'd let it go, then let it go.
[–] Teeheesaurus-Rex 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
It would go viral on fb within the hour. If there's one thing fats can be counted on for, it's propagating all the ways they are "discriminated" against.
[–] ScheissKaiser 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
Sorry to hear that. It sucks.
And fuck the fatty, fuck it sideways. You won't be surprised to hear that obesity, if anything, increases the risk of miscarriage.
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[–] Signoradimerda [S] 0 points 13 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago (edited ago)
Yeah unfortunately she had to ask - no papers on hand, that's the way it works here. The response though... I'd spent most of the day at work trying not to fall apart, this did nothing to help. And despite this being an accidental pregnancy... Emotionally devastated doesn't even cover it. Once we found out about the bub, we both wanted it. Now coming to terms with it and considering how long to wait before trying to conceive.
[–] Lurkerontheroof 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
God I wish I could slit her gunt right now. I'm so sorry hon, and yes please file a complaint, and cc/forward to your state rep/politicos, too, in case this subhuman garbage has fat friends directly on top. I've effectively done this before to avoid just wasting my time with human resources fats or friends of the asshole I'm complaining about. Nothing scares entrenched corrupt middle assholes like taking outside their chain of command and to their overseers.
[–] PsychoClover 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I like to think I always choose the high road and the mannerly approach. But this? Right here? Is why cuntpunches were invented. You have my greatest sympathy and admiration (that you managed to refrain from punching her).
[–] Montlulu 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
I am so sorry this happened to you. And fats make everything even worse. Good luck to you!