[–] RedditRunaway ago
Definitely complain! I'm sorry for your loss, I've been there...I'd have yelled at her loudly
I'm sorry for the loss of your child. When you do successfully give birth, I ask you to please keep in mind that in the long term, the most valuable things for a human being to have are knowledge and experience. Not only are they are the best inoculation against the torrent of misleading and often manipulative bullshit we're all inundated with on a daily basis (sometimes even from our own families and friends), but they are essential tools for success in life. It's my opinion that the goal of every parent should be to help make their offspring as strong as possible, and that means not being used by friends, family and coworkers, and not letting them be poisoned by manipulative lies. Critical thinking is key. Please don't blindly rely on schools to teach the value of critical thinking skills.
[–] MrSaxoBeetus ago
I'm really sorry for your loss, and for having to deal with this jealous butterbarge. Just want to point out that 25% of all pregnancies end in spontaneous miscarriage in the first trimester, there was nothing you could do. Don't blame yourself. The truth is medical science has yet to find out why it happens, let alone find a solution for this. I hope you find your inner strength to move on with your life and try again. I wish you the best.
[–] retailslave ago
If it makes you feel any better, fats have a much higher chance of losing their pregnancy
[–] upsidedownbackwards ago
That's how you know it's not human. Any human would know better than to blame the mother for a miscarriage to her face, even if she was drunk, smoking crack, and obese. It's just not something you do.