[–] FuckingEatLess 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Please report that for malpractice. I've suffered miscarriages and what she said is not only completely unprofessional, she is in no position to offer medical advice. Shd will continue to do this to other patients.
[–] DopeandDiamonds 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago (edited ago)
Oh honey I am so sorry.
Know that it was not your fault and did nothing wrong. It happens way more than we talk about and it does not mean it will happen again. Just be tough and cry when you feel like it but also take care of yourself and relax. Hugs.
File a report asap against her. Make it very clear how distressed it made you and that you want action taken against her.
[–] theepilepticferret 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Just remember this is not your fault. hugs
[–] Visitresss 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago (edited ago)
She's a bitch, and that's not "normal" among skinny women, it's normal among ALL women: 20% of all pregnancies are lost in the first three months. Needless to say, it's not your fault, but she tried to stab you into becoming fat, because your health hurts her feelings.
There is NOTHING you could have done to prevent it. 1 out of 5 pregnancies is miscarriaged in the first term. You were unlucky, but the chances are really high. I mean, 20% is a pretty high chance. It's bound to happen to someone, and it was you.
I'm sorry for your loss, but please don't blame yourself. It's nature, you had nothing to do with it and there was nothing you could have done to prevent it.
[–] ScheissKaiser 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
Sorry to hear that. It sucks.
And fuck the fatty, fuck it sideways. You won't be surprised to hear that obesity, if anything, increases the risk of miscarriage.
[–] Lurkerontheroof 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
God I wish I could slit her gunt right now. I'm so sorry hon, and yes please file a complaint, and cc/forward to your state rep/politicos, too, in case this subhuman garbage has fat friends directly on top. I've effectively done this before to avoid just wasting my time with human resources fats or friends of the asshole I'm complaining about. Nothing scares entrenched corrupt middle assholes like taking outside their chain of command and to their overseers.